I feel like I might be one of those "kids" (though I am 20 now) considered to have excessive/pricey gear, but you know, I don't really care if people poo-poo my gear. My parents bought me my first acoustic, electric, and then a number of years later, my first bass, but all that totalled up to probably less than $800. Since then, I've bought everything I own through saving. Christmas money, birthday money, working my ass off doing construction and farm labor, and earnings from my playing. Once or twice my parents helped me out with a purchase, but I've always made sure to pay them back completely. I'm proud of my gear, and even more proud that I can say I've pretty much acquired all of it through my own work. People can play whatever they want, I've played great budget basses, there's no reason for owners of them to feel inferior when standing next to a guy with a custom shop Fender. If you can play, that's what matters. But at the same time, don't begrudge the kid of having nice gear, because maybe they'll eventually become really good. Don't just judge a book by it's cover, you know?