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KKK Style Hat

Meh.
Is the hat inappropriate? Maybe, depends on the intentions. Given the teacher's been doing this for 30 years and never had a problem, I'm gonna give him the benefit of the doubt and say no.
Did the parents overreact? Absolutely. Deal with this sort of thing privately with your kid, teacher, and principal; don't take it to the papers trying to whore your kid out for some attention and a law suit, which is almost certainly coming.

personally, I feel that children are innocent and it's adults that put into their worlds the racial disharmony that WE feel and bs that we later go on to experience as adults. Sometimes I think that we can learn a little from their innocence and naivety.

+2. Me likey these two posts. And whoever gets the Clayton Bigsby reference gets 4.5 cool points
 
+1 for the Clayton Bigsby reference!!! (you beat me to it)

dear Dr. Cheese,
what if everyone in class had the same shape hat? white kids, black kids, latino, asian, etc. i'm sure other kids chose a similar design.
do you think a white parent would object? how about a Mexican mother.
 
+1 for the Clayton Bigsby reference!!! (you beat me to it)

dear Dr. Cheese,
what if everyone in class had the same shape hat? white kids, black kids, latino, asian, etc. i'm sure other kids chose a similar design.
do you think a white parent would object? how about a Mexican mother.

I know this wasn't addressed to me, but IMO, I would imagine a parent of any nationality having a problem with this. Not that I condone how far this kid's parents took it
 
That is your opinion, but in a case like this, the opinion of the parents matter too. They clearly took offense, complained to the principal, and have withdrawn their child from the school.
All of that is more traumatic then the teacher simply guiding the child in another direction.

Yes - I think that is the point.

The teacher COULD overreact and cause issues as the post your responding to details - and that would be worse than just ignoring it.

Instead - the teacher didn't overreact, the parents did... and now the parents have caused an even bigger disruption in their childs life.

Same mechanism though.
 
I mean seriously...how could you not use this at a 21st party or wedding:

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My thoughts exactly.
FOX will have a field day with that when the kid decides to run for President.:)
 
Yes - I think that is the point.

The teacher COULD overreact and cause issues as the post your responding to details - and that would be worse than just ignoring it.

Instead - the teacher didn't overreact, the parents did... and now the parents have caused an even bigger disruption in their childs life.

Same mechanism though.

The teacher could have done something without overreacting. Like possibly at least attempting to subtly guide the child in a different direction, which cheese was alluding to. That is, if the teacher sees the mask as a potential problem.

When I was in 2nd grade, we were supposed to draw pictures from a book we read about a whaler in Alaska. I chose to draw a party scene, and creatively enhanced the boobies of one of the patrons. Mr. Ray encouraged me to draw another picture. The result: I didn't get beat by my mom that day. No harm, no foul :D
 
Without knowing anyone well, my best guess is the parents overreacted...a lot.

I also don't agree with the parents decision to post this on the internet at all. I also hope they didn't make their son feel bad about something he created, but I am guessing that they did. Too bad.

When little kids unintentionally do things that aren't socially appropriate (announce bodily functions, talk about how someone else looks out loud, etc.) there are better ways to respond (including having no real response until the kid is older). I think this is just a case of that. "Wow that is a neat hat, it's so pointy! How were you able to make it stand up?" [leave it out for a few days and throw it out once he forgets about it]
 
Now that I look a bit closer, I notice that the hat in question appears to be colored in a rainbow theme. Clearly the child is "coming out" as a gay clansmen. Both life decisions were surely influenced by this deviant, racist, art teacher. I see no other possible explanation.
 
This, right here. Again, Dr. Cheese is trying to stir the pot, it does get old.

Dr. Cheese, racism goes both ways. Some white people still need to change their views, sad fact world wide. On the other side of the coin, as long as African American folks keep trying to find racism in every little thing, it's never going to die. Does that make sense ?

Yes, I do like to stir the pot, and so do the rest of you, or this post would not have about 60 responses in less than two hours.

For what it's worth, Buzzbass, in my first post, I said I saw how the teacher could allow the kid to make the hat in good faith. I simply suggested that the teacher might have considered giving some thought about how the hat might look to his parents. I was a sub off and on for several years, and I know that how things look to parents is important if you like paychecks.

I never accused the teacher of being racist at any point in this thread either.

If anything, I guess my biggest point about a thread like this is that we all need to listen to each other. We need to listen with an open mind, not judgmentally. We don't have to always agree, but we do need to be open to how others think or might think.

Finally, I do think the parents probably overreacted based on what I know. There may be more background informing their decision, but I certainly do not that for sure.
 

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