Hello all. Looking for a little advice or something. I am in a band for the first time in my life. I am 21 and have been doing sound/recording since I was 18. Dabbled with Geetar and such but never worked out. Finnally picked up a bass and have been hooked. Some friends say that it comes to me naturally, great. It just does not seem like it. So here is where I seek wisdom those who have come before me. The singer/guitar and songwriter of the group is a good friend of mine. I have quickly found that our styles differ a whole lot, even though music taste is very similiar. His stuff is pretty tuff for me, I chalk it up to just being inexperianced. The stuff that just flows out of me does not hardly ever fit the band. Have you guys run into this as well. I basically bust my ass to learn this "un-natural" style, because I feel like it will make me a better player. I get really aggrivated when I can't pick up something fast enough, is it just my lack of experiance? Maybey its just me being a perfectionist, my own worst critic as well as feeling like I have a lot of ground to make up on the other more experianced musicians I play with. Well, anybody's thoughts would be welcome. If not advice at least being able to relate. Thanks.