short story.. i have been a working drummer for 20 years. Played big shows with big bands. have a nice network of great musicians that I call friends and play with. Not currently in a full time band. My dad was a bassist and I have always wanted to play bass in a band. I have been moving more towards bass over the past few years, mostly self taught (i work as a music teacher) and I actually started taking some lessons recently with a great teacher via skype. I get calls to play bass in bands pretty regularly, but it is always the same story... we rehearse every week. My question is always why???? The parts and arrangements are already written... just learn them. One or 2 run throughs and away we go. Want to work in transitions? fine, tell them to me and we can run through them a couple of times. I am tired of the "we need to get tight" response. Good musicians can sound tight. I just got a gig of 14 Wed nights in a row during the summer with a group of guys who won't say hello to each other before downbeat of song one at that first gig. We all have the songlist and we will all come prepared. I did a run of gigs in Key West with a group of guys who all live in different parts of the country and met on stage at night 1 of a 7 night run, 4 hours straight each night, no breaks. If you are in an original band and working out new material and have to actually write your own parts, then I get it. Cover bands are not going to re-write Brown Eyed Girl. Harmonies? simple.. you take high, I go low. Work out yor parts at home and come prepared. Rehearsals are not where you learn songs. I am not anti-rehearsal... just anti rehearsing for the sake of thinking being in the same room makes us tighter. But hey, maybe I'm the *******..