While you may think you know more about amplification than the average player, you appear to know less about human nature based on this statement. And yes, your comment comes off as snide and dismissive of the bass players commenting in this thread.
Many speakers get damaged by large amps, primarily because the player doesn't recognize when the speaker is being overdriven, and also from accidents (something becoming partially unplugged, incorrectly set control or switch that got moved accidentally), and from lapses in restraint and good judgement. A more appropriately sized amp for the speakers being used greatly reduces this risk of damage.
My comment was pretentious and I apologize to everyone.
I realized after it posting. I stayed away from this thread for a couple of days because I didn't want to read the responses. I thought they'd be much worse honestly, apparently this place is pretty civilized.
I do realize players can get rather aggressive with the volume knob and accidents can happen.
I also know that some like the sound of an amp being over driven. I'm personally not a fan a pushing towards the limits of class d amplification. . I like head room and a good bit of it. I can't stand the sound of class d giving up. Some Amps can sound lovely when pushed , but others I'd rather get that from a pre and just keep the amps volume knob under control.
I also realize that hearing distortion in the lower registers is not easy for some. We can tolerate a lot more distortion down low. This is often how people blow subs. They just can't hear when the speaker is saying "stop". It's a very VERY common problem in other fields.
Add in pre amps with character or effects like distortion, saturation or overdrive and I can see where realizing the amp is pushing too hard can be problematic.
Not to mention plugging into or unplugging from a hot amp can wreck a driver. More so with smaller drivers (smaller coils) but no driver is immune if enough power is being applied.
Its just always been my preference to have more than I need. More than I could ever need really. Gives good head room, keeps the noise floor down and is future proof (having enough power to use any cab or cabs you'd like down the road.) Making more powerful amps a better investment (imo).
That being said, 350w is still quite substantial. The difference in output between 350w and 800w is rather minimal. The difference looks substantial on paper but is small enough that some may barely be able to tell the difference . It's just a few db difference coming out the cab, but you already know that.