Minor major 7 chord sound far more like tonics than minor 7 chords because of the inherant tendency of the dominant seventh to sound like it needs to resolve down a half step, whereas the major 7th wants to resolve up a half step. The target tone of resolution of the dominant seventh is the major third of the chord a perfect fourth higher, whereas the target tone of the resolution of the major seventh is the tonic of its chord. What do I mean by that? Well, say you have the chord progression, F#-7(b5), B7b9, E-7. The guide tone line that includes the seventh of the E-7 is going to be E (seventh of the F#-7(b5)) to D# (third of the B7(b9)) to D (minor seventh of the E-7). There is no finality with this last note, there is a tendency for it to want to continue to resolve chromatically until it gets to a point where it no longer can resolve downwards chromatically to a stable, diatonic chord tone. E-7 sounds like it should resolve to A7 (D resolving to C#), which in turn resolves to Dmaj7, where the line has stopped on the major 7th or C#. The full line is E-D#-D-C#-C# This has an implied resolution up to the tonic, and thus sounds stable with itself. The minor 7th in these diatonic contexts doesn't sound "at rest" enough. It's not dissonant, but it's not too terribly stable either.
Jazz pianists and jazz musicians have been fully aware of this tendency of resolution for a long time. In the 20's-40's, the standard voicing for a tonic minor chord was the minor 6th chord, not a minor 7th chord. The major sixth on these chords doesn't really have an implied resolution in any sort of direction. If the chord then proceeded to a chord built a perfect fourth up from the tonic (like A7 from E-7), the major sixth would be the major 3rd of the following chord, and there really wouldn't be any sort of resolution - the movement would be very weak. The major 6th therefore sounds more "tonic-like" because there isn't really any chord that it can be forced to "resolved to", unlike the minor 7th chord. During the 40's, the minor(major7) chord began to creep in as an alternative to the minor 6th tonic chord as a more spicy, dissonant-laden option. Because the major seventh had such a strong tendency to want to resolve upwards to the root of the tonic chord, there was no conflict of interest with where the chord wanted to resolve.
Now, common practice says that minor 7th chords are acceptable tonic minor chords, but this historically wasn't really the case. If you want to sound more authentic, especially if you're playing tin pan alley or the great American songbook, minor 6 and minor(maj7) chords are the way to go.