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musical advice to your younger self

I'm 60-ish, and I think a bunch of us are within a decade of that number. If you're younger, please enjoy yourself responsibly, and hopefully you'll join our club someday ;-)

The title says it all, what would you tell your younger self? Aside from "buy Apple stock when it was cheap" or "stay away from the blonde in the little black dress (yes, THAT one)".

I wish I had understood how to be a better singer back in the day. I wasn't any good at it till I was about forty and I rather enjoy it now. But maybe this is a skill that has to be earned an no amount of advice would have made any difference.

The other thing is: don't wait for permission to try something new. Actually this is a good thought to keep handy at any age.

Be healthy and safe, y'all.
 
I'm 60-ish, and I think a bunch of us are within a decade of that number. If you're younger, please enjoy yourself responsibly, and hopefully you'll join our club someday ;-)

The title says it all, what would you tell your younger self? Aside from "buy Apple stock when it was cheap" or "stay away from the blonde in the little black dress (yes, THAT one)".

I wish I had understood how to be a better singer back in the day. I wasn't any good at it till I was about forty and I rather enjoy it now. But maybe this is a skill that has to be earned an no amount of advice would have made any difference.

The other thing is: don't wait for permission to try something new. Actually this is a good thought to keep handy at any age.

Be healthy and safe, y'all.
 
  1. Realize now that you are the best bass player there has ever been or will be.
  2. None of your gear matters, you can play anything on anything and it will be recording quality.
  3. Always do what that girl says because you are so good you can easily afford to not play for 10 years, then immediately pick it right back up.
  4. Disregard the above 3 things because they are all BS!
 
"-You have to be easy to work with"

As I was reading cxcxcx's comments above it reminded me of a time that I went to Madhatter studios with my (at that time ) friend J. P. to sit on the couch with these heavyweight players waiting to record their parts on his album. The thing that most impressed me the most about him that night was that while they were waiting, here he comes with a platter of horderves SERVING these guys! Who wouldn't want to obviously play on his session as he was treating them like kings. A very great and humble guy.
 
If you're lucky/prepared enough to land a high profile gig....don't quit it just to play with your old high school buddies with a long shot at 'making it'. Good as they are, they're not where you are. You can always play/record with them in your spare time!!! kicked myself in the butt a long time for that!
 
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Pursue your career in music but also have a steady job outside of music. As a young musician I believed that having a regular, steady, paying job instead of being a full time musician was cheating myself as a musician. IMO, I was wrong.