I believe you, I really wanted to love the Spector they have at the nearby shop, played with it at the store for a long time, probably annoyed everyone and I just couldn't get the sound I wanted without turning everything to max, and at anything less, it didn't sound particularly good. It has a deep and "sticky" finished neck that maybe dryer, larger hands might appreciate more and as a result just didn't play as well as either of my main basses. For my Spectra Pro to sound more flexible, play better and BE more flexible with a true preamp bypass as well, making it more reliable for the stage, at 1/3 the price... then there's the Warwick which does everything better and cost me $800 at a clearance sale in 2008...
Anyway, congratulations on that bass, it looks like a winner.