I'm going to try and be objective about this situation. Would like your opinion on how to handle. My band booked a gig a month and a half in advance with a venue here locally. Yesterday, lead singer states she wants to attend a concert held on the same day of our gig with some out-of-town friends and wants to know if we are available to switch nights with another band or reschedule the gig for another day. I sent her an email stating I felt this was unprofessional to cancel a gig because of a concert she wanted to attend (the concert is Van Halen, if that matters). She said our booking agent was fine with us cancelling the gig (the reason she gave him was our drummer's baby's baptism which is on the same day of the gig). Lead singer says she received an email from the venue asking if we could do some other date. The other side of this story is that she is raising concerns about gig opportunities and our availability for them. Am I making too much out of this or am I out of line in calling her unprofessional? She says the booking agent and the venue's management is okay with us cancelling and rescheduling. Thanks for reading. I thought I was done with band drama.