may as well leave now since, as soon as they can find him/her, you're soon to be replaced by a more experienced player who meets their criteria and skill level.
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do what he wants you to do. see where it goes (music, hang, $$$).How would you read this situation if it was you?
When you said you don’t mesh with the drummer, did you mean playing or personalities?A lot of responses and I appreciate the feed back, I'm dealing with a slight flood problem right now, but just some clarification points.
I prefer a strong band leader, the last band slowly turned into a mess because the BL allowed himself to be overruled by another BM
My goal was to find a band with better musicians than myself, the saying: it's better to be the worse musician in the room was what I was shooting for. I over shot.
This area is a little sticky as bands go, We are over run with classic rock bands, plenty of bassist, very few non classic rock bands with potential to make paying gigs, and bars etc. before covid were starving for non classic rock bands/party bands. I live in a remote part of the state and have to travel. Given the above, I tend to stick it out hoping for the best.
I love Tennessee Whisky's bass line
Back to work I'll read and reply later Thanks
This area is a little sticky as bands go, We are over run with classic rock bands, plenty of bassist, very few non classic rock bands with potential to make paying gigs, and bars etc. before covid were starving for non classic rock bands/party bands. I live in a remote part of the state and have to travel. Given the above, I tend to stick it out hoping for the best.
What about danceable classic rock?Well paying gigs are abundant for danceable non-classic rock bands.
We haven't locked in musically. Personality wise, on breaks he all about the music and potential songs to do next. We are approaching 30 songs after just 6 rehearsals, so I think I'm doing pretty good for being in a new genre. The singer (who is outta this world) keys and sax and to a lesser extent the guitarist (who is across the room) have been easy to connect with.When you said you don’t mesh with the drummer, did you mean playing or personalities?
Bar owners around here will tell you, all classic rock bands say they are danceable and they all say they have a following, either end up being true. They have enough classic rock bands that can make it work. The 20/30 something females (who dance) will always leave after the first drink when a classic rock band is playing, the last thing a bar owner wants to see happen.What about danceable classic rock?
Is this a cover band? If so then just play the songs close to the recordings. If he tries to make you dumb it down it's up to you whether or not to tolerate him. Personally I play covers very close to the record and stand my ground for better or worse.Hope this is the right place for this question. I joined a new band, 8 weeks in (six practices) and the drummer (Band leader) has requested that I play only root notes on some songs, He and I haven't seemed to mesh yet, he started out critical of my timing the first to practices, then moved on to the actual notes I was playing, now this, All very seasoned musicians with incredible ear for music (keyboard and guitar and the sax player has a pretty good ear on his own), but the drummer seems to want to control what I play. FYI I'm out of a rock band, this band plays oldies and standards along the lines of Motown r&b and dance standards. How would you read this situation if it was you? Spare no feelings. TY
I am happy to play anything that gets people up and dancing and ordering food and beverages. It’s fun for us as musicians and it gets us asked back.Bar owners around here will tell you, all classic rock bands say they are danceable and they all say they have a following, either end up being true. They have enough classic rock bands that can make it work. The 20/30 something females (who dance) will always leave after the first drink when a classic rock band is playing, the last thing a bar owner wants to see happen.
Perhaps but without listening to the music itself and to the specific request it’s hard for us to know whether the drummer is in-bounds or not.However, I would listen to the drummer and change my parts. If one is unable to adapt his playing according to the musical surroundings, then he can't call himself a bass player, IMHO.
What about danceable classic rock?