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New year, new (old) band!

Back when COVID hit, it was the death toll for my old band. Our singer/songwriter/BL moved 3 hours away to weather the lockdowns, and our lives all kind of went their separate ways. Until yesterday.

A few days before xmas BL called and asked if I’d be interested in starting the band back up, as a low commitment once a month just for fun sort of thing. Said the drummer was already down. With all of us having progressed in life (kids, jobs, etc.), this sounded great to me. We met up New Year’s Day, jammed around for about 2 hours and left with 5 solid jams that could be turned into full fledged songs with a little more time. What a way to ring in the new year!

Sadly, in those middle years, the drummer and lead guitarist had a pretty hard falling out, so lead guitarist is not rejoining us at this time. Just going to enjoy it as a 3 piece for a while and see where it goes.

The goal is to maybe gig 2-3 times a year, and just have fun. For where I’m at in life, that sounds like a great arrangement to me.

Happy new year, all!
 
Congrats. If you add a lead guitarist, best of luck. Kinda depends on how big a pool you have to draw on I guess.

I made the move from Dallas to Fort Worth recently, and while they're their the two anchors of the DFW Metromess, 4th largest metro area in the US, Fort Worth proper is definitely a smaller town, smaller pool. Still, there are talented lead players. The fact that you're low-commitment might mean you can find one who otherwise works with other bands and would be willing to take on another more creative part time project.
 
Is it worth you having a coffee/beer with the lead guitarist, see if there is a way for him to bury the hatchet (other than in the drummers skull)?
Both myself and the BL have tried that. He’s been giving quarter-hearted “idk, maybe, but probably not” kinds of responses. Personally, I don’t think it’ll happen. Theres too much history between them, and hurt feelings of others in his social circle that are essentially pressuring him to not make amends.
 
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I feel immensely lucky that every one of my projects/bands are with lovely, mature people (and good musicians) that I am simpatico with.

The money isn't a factor for me, at all, at that point.
 

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