IME, there is a fair bit of miscommunication among musicians in the rhythm section on this point.
I would first say that MOST popular music rooted in Blues wants emphasis on beats 2 and 4 to feel good. That is the hand clap / back beat. If you are getting that right then the line will feel good and tend to flow in a natural way. No one will hack on you for being in front of or behind the "beat."
Un"schooled" drummers drive me nuts with this; emphasizing most often the 1 and 3 on the kick drum and going soft on the rim shots or high hat for the 2 and 4. I usually just stop them and explain that the only thing I am listening for is the 2 and 4, and that needs to be the most heard; "just like the record."
Don't know if that helps; but, if you are getting that part right and the drummer is still got a twist for you being ahead of or behind the beat, I would tell him/her to get a life. Music is supposed to feel good. Getting overly clinical about it will throw a wet towel over the feel in a heartbeat.
I would first say that MOST popular music rooted in Blues wants emphasis on beats 2 and 4 to feel good. That is the hand clap / back beat. If you are getting that right then the line will feel good and tend to flow in a natural way. No one will hack on you for being in front of or behind the "beat."
Un"schooled" drummers drive me nuts with this; emphasizing most often the 1 and 3 on the kick drum and going soft on the rim shots or high hat for the 2 and 4. I usually just stop them and explain that the only thing I am listening for is the 2 and 4, and that needs to be the most heard; "just like the record."
Don't know if that helps; but, if you are getting that part right and the drummer is still got a twist for you being ahead of or behind the beat, I would tell him/her to get a life. Music is supposed to feel good. Getting overly clinical about it will throw a wet towel over the feel in a heartbeat.