I agree with Arie X;
I seriously doubt that you'd find anyone with a PLEK machine who'd be willing to use it for grinding frets down to the tangs. The grinding wheels that a PLEK machine uses are fine grit and pre-dressed to a crown (slight concave) shape. They are designed to take light trim passes on the tops of the frets, leaving a crowned top with a fine finish. You definitely wouldn't want to use that wheel to grind the frets down to the tangs. Do they have a separate coarse grit flat grinding wheel to put on there? Maybe, but I doubt it. What would they use it for? The PLEK is light duty, low power, precision CNC machine. It's not made for hogging off metal.
When they cut a fingerboard surface, they change from the crown grinding wheel to some kind of HSS wheel cutter, probably with spiral teeth. An expensive cutter, made to trim a tiny amount of wood in a very smooth finish. No way would they use that to hog through metal frets.
And of course, the whole idea of grinding the frets off, leaving the tangs down in the slots, is a bad idea for a lot of reasons. Any shop sophisticated enough to invest in a PLEK machine would know that.
If they agreed to defret your neck, they would pull the frets out, fill the slots with something solid, and basically shape the fingerboard surface with hand blocks. Then, they might put it in the PLEK machine for a final touch-up of the fingerboard surface.