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Potential to sub on a NorCal tour (long, as usual)

A musical acquaintance of mine reached out to me yesterday about the possibility of subbing for him on his band's upcoming 9 date Northern CA tour in July. Here are some of my thoughts, in no particular order.
  • Networking opportunity. This guy that called me is pretty connected in the Seattle scene. He's in several up-and-coming bands. The reason he can't do it is because one of the up-and-coming bands is touring Spain for the second time in a year. To be on his radar is a positive sign.
  • Never toured before. In all my years of playing, I have stayed local, except for three there-and-backs trip to Oregon (Portland and Eugene), and one time in Los Angeles. This would be my first "real" tour, though I only know dates and towns so far, nothing else (assuming it's by car/van, however).
  • I'm available. I'm in 2 bands now and neither has shows booked, but I will triple check to avoid any conflict drama. I am also unemployed, so there are no work obligations, but I would need a computer and internet access to continue to look for/apply for jobs.
  • The music is good, but not my typical thing. I love rock, pop/rock, yacht rock (duh), stuff like that. This band's music is described as "psychedelic rock," which I don't agree with. I hear a lot of indie country (lap steel, horns, twangy guitar), but I don't dislike it; it's not necessarily something I'd seek out to listen to. That said, I have it playing now and I don't hate it. Despite not immediately clicking with the music, it's hip and I can see the yoots loving it with their twirly moustaches, sleeve tattoos and stovepipe jeans.
  • I don't know any of the band members. Outside of my friend who contacted me (who I think is a sub for them himself), I don't know them. But, if he's vouching for them, I think they'd be cool. I'm pretty easy to get along with as well, but 10-12 days in a van would definitely affect things, I think.
  • Speaking of road trips, I love the idea of them, I'm not a huge fan of the reality of them. From the schedule I saw, it's starting in San Francisco on 7/1 and ending in Arcata, CA on 7/11, 9 shows in total.
  • Moneywise, I would love to make some, but I think I'd be happy to just break even as this is more about the experience and exposure than the money.
Anyway, I'm gonna reach out to the BL for more details, let's see what happens.
Ask how they are traveling and where they are sleeping? Ask if rooms and meals are accounted for and If rooms are part of the deal how many to a room. Road work can lead to all kinds of opportunities.
 
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If you can do a rehearsal/jam to get a vibe for the hang and it feels comfy, why not? It will be a worthwhile experience for sure and you might even have some fun!

The Bar Band Bassman
For sure, rehearsals would be part of the deal. I gotta learn 15+ originals. And I have a good track record of getting along with bandmates.

It all depends on your position along life's continuum. For me to be away from my wife and kids for 60 bucks a gig for two weeks today is preposterously incomprehensible, but I regret turning down a European tour when I was 22 (zero responsibilities in life!) because we thought the terms weren't generous enough. What arrogance, what a missed adventure! If your wife has your back and it makes sense financially, go for it.
Wife def has my back, she just gave me the green light!

Exciting! I'm subscribing because I hope to go to the SF show if it comes together! (No guarantees but it sounds like fun)
For sure! San Fran show would be 7/1 in Mission District, venue TBA.

Been a weekend warrior for most of my adult life, local dives to outdoor summer evening "park" shows to some of the elegant local ballrooms....mostly cover tunes, but have dabbled in originals in both a band setting and acoustic singer/songwriter-type projects. Have never had the chance to do anything that might be called a tour. Now with Mrs D and I being empty nesters, the idea of having the chance to do something more "tour" oriented is for sure a bucket list item....just simply to experience it.

Lots of good advice here so far, can't really add anything huge, except based on what you know so far....it's for sure worth exploring it more deeply!! If no hints of "red flags" appear....I'd be quite tempted!!
As mentioned earlier, we are also empty nesters as of January, but for the timeframe of this tour, both kids will be home from college, albeit working, and my wife will be on her summer break (she's a teacher), but will also be working for summer school. Dog will be by himself for most of the day, which may be weird for him, since he's had me or someone by his side since we got him in May 2019.

Everybody's situation is different. But considering you say you're unemployed and looking for work, personally I'd consider this work, and make it your first tour as a pro. That of course means, not just breaking even as mentioned earlier. YMMV of course.
That's a good point. If what BL says is accurate, aside from incidentals and an occasional meal, my debit card should go pretty unused. That said, when I am filing for unemployment, I might have to report the tour as a "job" since I'd be getting paid.

Go for it! I wouldn't do it now but I did it plenty then…experience the road, the hang, and bring plenty of fresh socks!
See, this is why TB is the best. I'd bring my usual # of socks +1. I think I'd need to bring my usual number, plus 3-5 more pairs. Go sock heavy!

Salud!

Take it! I would love to have an opportunity such as that!

What's your friend's band touring in Spain? If they get near Madrid, I will go to see them if I can.
Ok, I think I was wrong; they have done Spain recently. Looks like in June, they will be heading to France, UK, Germany and Hungary. The band is called Acid Tongue, and they are great.

If I were in your shoes I'd go for it. The potential connections may be worth it even if the money isn't. Sometimes you have to take a chance, which I have done locally by taking last minute sub jobs that really worked out well. Succeeding with those sub jobs has led to more of the same and has put me in line for more varied opportunites.

With regard to touring; I did some limited touring in Arizona and Southern California when I was in my 30's. The experience was mostly positive, but be ready for any number of unusual situations that can arise. From agreeing where to eat, to band members getting car sick; in our case getting bus sick, to members wandering off at bathroom and fuel stops. Those wanderings can seriously affect your well planned time table. Some people can be incredibly irresponsable when it comes to their actions and behaviour negatively affecting the group. Finally, if you don't do it you'll miss out on an experience that may never come around again.

Thump on,

One_Dude
Yeah, that's how I'm looking at it. Would I like to make big $$? You bet! But I'm going for the experiences and the connections. As mentioned earlier, to be thought of for this is pretty cool in the first place. It's total DIY and homebrewed, but it's more juice than I have otherwise and hoping it can open more doors.

As far as I know, the other 3 bandmates are in their 30s and I'd hope fairly responsible. However, we all know how that can go. I reached out to my drummer friend last night and when she toured with the aforementioned Acid Tongue, her perspective was that it was cool to be the older member (she's 50-ish) amongst the younger members (in their late 20s and early 30s), offering perspectives that were new to them. When she put it that way, it clicked with me because that's how my work has been the past 10 years: I've been the old dude with a bunch of younger co-workers, and I've loved it.

What's the back story there?

Riis
Been working for the past 10 years, took a contract job last year due to an $ offer I couldn't refuse, contract ended, currently job hunting and on unemployment.

Arcata, Eureka and Cayucos are all really small isolated beach towns, seems like odd tour stops but as someone else said, beautiful places to visit. Oakland and SF are next door to each other and Sacramento is an hour away so if they are back to back you'll have time on your hands. Since you're going to Los Angeles though you'll probably hit one or two going down and another coming back up. When it's closer and a for sure thing let us know the details, I would come out to SF or Oakland in support and meet a real live TBer on tour. I was involved with a west coast tour back in the day. Fun times and good memories.
Awesome!! I am down to meet TBers for sure! I don't know why the BL has chosen the destinations he's chosen other than I think he's played them before. Here in Seattle, they aren't playing the biggest venues, but they seem to be percolating and growing to better things.

Exactly, besides trying meth, wondering if 220V tickles or similar really bad ideas we will regret not doing something rather than doing it. They're supplying gear, so you don't even need to worry about stolen equipment.
Yeah, the gear thing is cool, though I might bring one of my basses and use the J as a backup.

That's what inspired my earlier comment, that unless I misunderstand, the OP is a hobbyist/semi-pro, and given his current employment status, if it were me, I'd consider this pro sub work, and get paid accordingly. Go have the adventure, but work is work.
Love it.

That kind of thing actually seems kind of inviting if you have the ability to be away from home for the duration. New experience, a little diversity in your music, networking (as you mentioned) and a hell of an ego boost. That said there are a few things I'd want to know before agreeing:
1. How will the hang be? It's one thing to do a one off sub gig with jerk-offs, but to be on the road with them for a couple of weeks could be pure torture. You said you don't know them, but I'd make an effort to at least jam with them once before agreeing to something like this.
2. Have some concrete specifics of what your creature comforts will be while travelling. Hotel room covered? Single or shared room? Meals etc. We all have our things and as you stated, the reality of road trips is rarely as cool as the idea of them.
3. Backline. Are you having to drag your own gear around, or will there be backline provided at all your dates. IF dragging your own, how will that happen?

Your trip doesn't really cover a lot of real estate - the trip could easily be made directly in less than a day, so I can't imagine any crazy long days between stops.

Best of luck!
1. as mentioned, rehearsals are a must. I will know the guys before jumping in a van with them, for sure.
2. Trying to find out more. BL mentioned some crashing at homes of other bands, or something. Don't know about motels/hotels or the like. But like you said, the venues are spaced in such a way that it seems like it wouldn't be a full day of driving, more like several hours.
3. He's got a Fender Bassman he'd bring for me. :)

Is $60 just what they offered or is that an equal cut? Agreed, you're coming in as a hired gun/semi-pro sub and are doing them something of a favor by taking this on and IMO it needs to be worth the effort. At a minimum you should be making the same money everyone else is and there's definitely an argument for being paid more as a hired gun. Yes the opportunity and experience has it's own value, I get that. But at a minimum you should be getting AT LEAST what the others get, money and amenity wise.
Yeah, it's $60/gig OR 20%, whichever pays more. So, it could be decent if there's a great turnout. But with lodging/transportation/food handled for the most part, it turns out to be more (minus my time). I look at it this way, I played 2 gigs this past weekend, 2 different bands, time spent at both in total, about 12-14 hours. I'll get about $150 ($10-12.50/hr) between the 2 gigs. But, as mentioned above, none of this is about making the big bux.

I have almost all my basses in gig bags - all of my gigs are around town - I sleep in my own bed after every gig. But..... I have one bass in an ATA rated hard case. I have that case just in case (yeah, there's word play there) someone someday comes to me and says "we're going on a van tour". I don't want to go on a world tour and not come home for 3 years, but a week or two in a van, doing a bunch of gigs? I'm in. I wouldn't care if it cost me money - I'd do it for the experience.

I may never get that chance, but you have that opportunity in front of you, staring at you. Go, and tell me (OK, us) about it.
Love it, and you bet, will write.

Whew, thanks for participating. Off to confirm with the BL!
 
For sure! San Fran show would be 7/1 in Mission District, venue TBA.


That's a good point. If what BL says is accurate, aside from incidentals and an occasional meal, my debit card should go pretty unused. That said, when I am filing for unemployment, I might have to report the tour as a "job" since I'd be getting paid.
I played the clubs of SF for almost 20 years, starting in the mid 80's. Was a great time. I'm not as up on the venues now, would be curious which one it is--is it the Make Out Room? I've known the owner forever.

As for being on unemployment, assuming you're getting paid in cash for this, man, I wouldn't report it!
 
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Quick update. I'm feeling like someone who had a great first date but is hesitant to reach out the next day for fear of looking thirsty. However, it's less being thirsty and more just wanting information.

After verbally agreeing to this gig and getting verbal confirmation back, I figured some dialog would be starting, but it's been radio silence. Granted, the BL does have a day gig and I don't so maybe that's playing into things. But I'd think he'd be sending info over, more than just the 8 songs he wants to do.

Then again, it's me overthinking things, I think.

I have gotten familiar with 5 of the 8 songs so far. A couple are fairly easy and a couple are tricky, in that I had to use Moises.ai to slow down the isolated bass track, so I could pick out the notes and get them under my fingers. Once I did that, the songs started making sense and the parts were imprinting themselves.

In addition to the isolated bass, I have the songs on Spotify (why do I have to hit Shift-Arrow to go back/forwards 10 seconds? Why can't it simply be left/right arrows like everything else??) and I'm bouncing back and forth playing along. The recordings are super lo-fi (to me) and have very little audible bass; Moise.ai sorts the bass in an isolated bass track as "other" and not "bass." So, listening in Spotify is challenging, but bouncing back and forth, taking notes in OneNote, is working.

The iso bass sounds like a J, picked with flats. Not my favorite sound, but it works. I may string up one of my basses with flats in case he's particular about that.

Here's a snip of one song. A tab whiz I am not. Nor do I have software to make notes. I suppose a notebook might be easier. Anyway, here's my notes:
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I've purposely held off on naming the band, in case something gets wonky, but I'll put it out there once we start moving forward.
 
I'd want the money, venues and hotels sorted.
So you need to know which dates arent covered and when its envisaged you'll be crashing in someones house.
Meal times are crucial as if you have to fund 3 meals a day, you'll burn your gig bucks.
Plus, do you have a gig every day...because otherwise thats more money.
You might eat better at the crash houses..?
Its roughing it a bit unless you are early 20's when nobody cares but its an experience if you've not done this before.

Definitely do not pay to play. imv.

The reason you havent heard much from BL is because he is busy filling in all the holes in the days.

As long as you expect and accept this is a budget seat of the pants tour, anything more is a bonus.
 
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Hello friends. I went and saw the band last night, they had a gig. I got to meet the BL, the drummer, and sub bassist (who hooked me up) who I will be subbing for.

BL confirmed some of the stuff he had already told me and said that a 5th member on keys, percussion and vox may also be joining us. Initial feeling is that the BL and drummer seemed like cool dudes. Hard to talk during another band's set, so I watched a power trio (bassist playing a Gibson Grabber) and waited until the BL's band set up.

They played as a 5 piece, with bass, drums, lead guitar/vox, rhythm guitar, and keys/percussion/backing vox. Where the studio recordings are fairly dry and antiseptic, the live show was quite different. They were very tight and true to the parts on record (though I don't think the actual recorded players were in the band last night), but the performance was a lot more lively and energetic.

I think a lot had to do with the drummer. Before the set, I mentioned to the BL that I usually play/listen to music that's a little heavier than what his band does. He responded that the drummer came from a more rock background as well. When I watched him perform, that appeared to be a good description. He drove with appropriate authority and tact and was frickin' rock solid throughout. I kept thinking how fun it was going to be to play with him.

I was also encouraged by my friend on bass. He was solid, and he didn't play exactly what the record had. On one recorded song, there's a repeating riff that starts at the E on the 7th fret of the A string, jumps an octave and goes all over. He played that an octave lower, starting on the open E. I wouldn't necessarily do that for the whole song, but I liked that the BL didn't ask him to do exactly what the record did.

Anyway, schedules being what they are, I likely won't meet with the band in a musical sense until the second week of June, and then we'll woodshed from there. In the meantime, stay tuned for updates as they happen.
 
Finally met with the Forest Ray guys Sunday night. Peter on guitar/flute/harmonica/vocals, Simon on rhythm guitar, and Miles on drums. I've been practicing the tunes a bunch at home and felt pretty good about them, but ended up bringing my notes just in case.

The trip to Northgate took almost 45 minutes. A fender bender on the shoulder on I-5N added about 15 minutes to the drive, which was quite lame. I got there and went in the Silence-of-the-Lambs type basement (re: like a labyrinth) and got plugged in. Peter had a Bassman 100 going out of 2 15" speakers and the sound was thick.

We started with Pass Me By, which to me, is the easiest tune. One riff throughout, with a couple differences in the chorus. I stayed pretty true to the record, but added some embellishments as one does. I didn't get any stink eyes or anything, and listening back to our recording, it was passable. Not bad at all.

In going through the songs on my own, I sensed/deduced/learned that many of Peter's songs are Intro > Verse > Chorus > Intro 2 > Verse 2 > Chorus 2 > Bridge > Intro 3 > Verse 3 > Chorus 3, or some variant of that. He also has long sections, often twice as long as I might expect, but I'm catching on.

I asked him about playing style and he seemed pretty chill about what I was doing. I think as long as I'm listening to him and serving the song, I'll be good. That said, I stayed pretty basic overall. I was a little annoyed with myself because I was relying on my notes more than I would have liked, but I'm glad I had them with me.

As it stands now with Forest Ray, there were no red flags. I think someone was a little "chemically altered" when I was there, but it didn't affect me or the music so I'm not worried about it. I did see the big silver/grey van we'll be in; looked like a large 4 row Ford of some sort.

The guys all seemed pretty cool. Miles is going to be great fun to play with; he did a good job taking cues from Peter and leading me. We had a couple of song endings that I knew nothing about, but was able to follow the guys and do what they were doing, so that was cool. Simon was really solid on rhythm guitar, and apparently he knows all the bass parts, so when I got lost, he'd plunk the notes until I figured it out.

Looking forward to building on this one practice and memorizing the tunes. So far so good, we'll see how practice 2 on Thursday goes.
 
Third rehearsal in the books and if the tour started today, I'd feel comfortable. I think I've learned 18-19 songs now and know the arrangements to be close enough. Muscle memory is developing and less thinking and simply playing is starting. We have one more rehearsal set for Tuesday and then hitting the road on Wednesday for the Lollipop Shoppe in Portland that night.

No red flags or anything. The guys are cool and I learned that at 51, I am the oldest in the band by 18 years. Maybe I'll dispense some wisdom.

BTW, this is what I've been playing through at practice. Sounds as thick as it looks.
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Starting the mental packing list, picked up a few things from the store yesterday. In addition to my bass/DI/music stuff, thinking of bringing a backpack (carry on style) and a suitcase for the big stuff. BL has a Ford Econoline van that should have plenty of room for at least 3 amps (guitar/guitar/bass), a drum set, 4 dudes and their luggage.

In a FB post, someone suggested the old motorcyclist's trick of packing old underwear/sox and ditching them on the road to lighten load and to not have to carry dirty unmentionables. I sort of like that idea, but hated the idea of purchasing new stuff due to ditching old (but still functional) stuff. Do I have old underwear and sox? Yes, but I am also thrifty (cheap) and don't want to waste what I have.

I digress.

I am a little concerned about the logistics of The Stuff and Gear. Meaning, while we are in the van/on the road, we are good. What about when we park to eat? Do we get it to go and eat in the van? Does one of us stay back in the van to safeguard the stuff? How about when we are performing? Though our gear will be in the venue with us, do we leave our suitcases in the van? Or do we offload everything into the venue, space permitting? At night, while sleeping, if it's not in the van, I plan on taking my stuff inside; what about the amps and drums, etc?

Anyway, planning on posting updates from the road when I can (which should be the day after each gig; travel gonna be wack). Hoping to have decent places to lay my head at night and some cool stories and pix to share.