I'm wanting to know what kind of bass you feel most comfortable playing.
The info I'm interested in is brand/model, scale length, number of strings, string spacing, etc.
I just want to get a feel for what type of basses women feel suit them best.
Thanks for your time
Yeah, I think responses will be all over the spectrum... Lots of variation!
I'm pretty average... 5'5"
I DO find that how the bass balances on the strap makes more of a difference in playing comfort than scale length. (Lol, how high one can wear a bass is going to vary from person to person.

) That said, I do play short scales... Just like 'em. Birdsong Hy5 is the best bass I've ever owned and I love everything about it. It's the only bass I have not felt the need to modify in any way.

It gets plugged straight into the amp, no effects.
So for me... 5 string, short/almost medium scale (31"), excellent balance. I'm not sure exactly how much it weighs, because how heavy it is doesn't matter as much (to me) when it balances well. Um, I think string spacing is 17mm. And it just naturally sounds great on its own.
Right now I'm playing my backup Brice, while waiting for a new varitone to be installed in the Birdsong. It's not quite as comfortable even though it also has 5 strings, great balance, and has an even shorter scale (30") and closer string spacing (16mm). I like it a lot but paying more attention to the mods it needs... I think maybe replacing the electronics is up next once my main bass is back. To compensate for its lack of... Robust electronics, lol... I'm playing through a Zoom B3, which has been pretty entertaining! Dialing in a tone I like on it is both fun and frustrating at the same time.
So all that really says is finding a bass that both sounds and feels good is completely subjective, which is not that much help! (I can say without hesitation that Birdsong is excellent overall, though.)
Oh... Just throwing this out there... I've found that playing my daughter's 34" 5 string MTD, and a friend's 34" 4 string Ibanez both felt fine. Both balance well and the necks felt great. The asymmetrical MTD neck is pretty neat!