I agree 100% except the comment about tabs: tabs CAN take you plenty of places - none of them where you want to be.
Yes, I could take the time to learn to staff but to be honest at this point and with all of the stuff I have going on musically, unlearning what I know is nigh impossible - electracoyote is SPOT ON:
I've talked to our drummer and guitarist about learning to read the staff (they're both full time music instructors) and they just wave their hands and say, "Don't worry about it. You've got your system and it works," which is the equivalent of saying "You're screwed up enough to make it work, don't screw with your goofed up methods or you won't have anything to run with and we'll never get anything done ever again."
I mean this week I've had to finish Dream Theater's "Erotomania," Porcupine Tree's "Arriving Somewhere But Not Here," "The Creator Has a Mastertape," (I have had to put Liquid Tensions' "Acid Rain" on hold until next week); I have to write an 8 measure bass solo in Cm/A for an original, I have to learn a new piece the guitarist has written (he wrote out the entire bass line for the whole song, which is weird bc I usually write my own lines, and it's fun to see how someone else envisions bass lines - it's not how I would have written it at all, which is COOL but challenging), and I had a rehearsal with one band last night and I've got another one with another band Thursday night. Oh, and a full time job, 5 kids, 3 wives, a life filled with luxury and foreign intrigue, you know how it goes. It's not that unusual a week for me, I've got to sit in while we audition some potential front people for my main band oh, and LT's "Acid Rain" will have to be SOLID within a few weeks.
Practically speaking, it doesn't leave a lot of time to brain dump everything I've mis-learned and bastardized after nearly 40 years of playing, learn the staff without falling on old habits, put it to full use quickly and rise like a Phoenix from the ashes of bad tabs and fake books.
Ain't no one got time for that! So instead of being an inspiration, I've accepted my role as a warning sign - LEARN TO READ MUSIC!
Now, about that section in "Acid Rain," about 2 minutes in...