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should I call?

#22
I think the consensus so far is to go for it. At the end of the day, you haven't got a close friendship or anything else to lose. Rebound can be lots of fun, just make sure you keep your emotions in check or else you could get hurt. Take rebound and respect it for what it is - rebound...if you know what I mean...

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#25
Mr.QuakQuak said:
Just say you havn't spoke to her in a while and was just wondering how she was doing. Maybe try to make a simple plan to go someplace this wouldn't be datey.

Perhaps something along the lines of "No one else wanted to go so I thought you might want to."
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Girls never like guys that think like losers.
 
#26
Nope don't go for it. Stay away from her. I mean it.

Tch I just wanted to write something different but that's harsh. You might as well ring her. Trust me, I've got a whole... 6 years experience with girls? Go for it. [Homer voice w/ fist shaking] Cause if you don't....[/Homer voice w/ fist shaking]

Cool Thor we can write reasons for editing? [Burns voice w/ crazy finger thing that he does] Excellent... [/Burns voice w/ crazy finger thing that he does]

Too much Simpsons :( Hey cool the smilies are in colour again! :D
 
#27
Mike Money said:
"I meat one of his co-workers"


was that intentional?
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consciously intentional? No. Freudian slip? Perhaps. For one thing they work at McDonalds and work with meat-like substances. Plus, while my intentions are certainly more noble than simply getting at her panties, if oppurtnunity knocks, I'll answer. I mean if she's all like "Get on it." I'm not gonna be like "no, of course not, why would I? That's preposterous" you know?

Alright, I'll call her today and, if all signs point to go, ask to meet her for some sort of non-threatening non-alcoholic beverage and some sort of non-threatening non-alcoholic conversation...
 
#33
Trust me as a twenty year old with out a girlfriend that has been in similar situations, ask her out. Don't wait too long she will get another boyfriend. She works at a place where she sees alot of people, if she is attractve there is a good chance someone will ask her out.

My friend Sarah (I say friend but haven't seen her in about a year and don't have her current number) and I got along great, liked alot of the same things, but I never asked her out because I was afraid she would reject me and she liked a friend of mine. Next year in school I didn't have any classes with her so I didn't see her much. She starts going out with a guy that she is still with. Granted her and I didn't lose our friendship and I became friends with her boyfriend, whom I would jam with in the music room almost every day, but I am sure she would have gone out with me and we probably would still be together and I would likely have met Chris and jamed with him alot anyways. My fault for not asking and I regret it. Don't make the same mistake I did and never ask.
 
#34
ok, update, I touched base with her about an hour ago. I asked her "hey how've you been?" and she mentioned her break-up on her own. So after some small talk, I asked her what her weekend looked like. Her evenings were booked (according to her), so I just told her to call if she found some spare time and would like to get a drink or "something". She said she would...
so yeah, no win or lose yet
 
#38
Pop in at Mikky D's order a La Royal with cheese supersize it (subliminal message) maybe try to catch her attention. If that doesn't work to sort of get your foot in the door, just call her and say hi...I went to Mc Donalds today and I saw you working, I haven't talked to you in a while just thought I would say what's up..... Just try to be her friend first, women just getting out of a realtionship have all kinds of dudes sword fighting over her, just say hi and be her friend and see where it goes........
 
#40
You know were she works, McD's right, I would just go to her work for some food one day, and say hi, talk a little bit. Then the next day, or two days later give her a call, saying it was nice to see her the other night, and go from there. That way you are not calling out of the blue.
 

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