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So like girls man...

I've noticed a trend in my "love life" if you would call it that.

Girls I find attractive yet have no desire to date or actually care for seem to fall almost right away for me.

Girls I care about and would like a long term relationship with put me in the friend bubble right away.

I think my best bet is to disappear, get huge muscles, become a lifeguard, get douchey hair, and come back with a sweet tan and act like a huge dick....


Or ill just wait till another girl comes along and make sure I don't screw that up...

Wrong. You just need to maintain how much attention you give chicks.
 
I've noticed a trend in my "love life" if you would call it that.

Girls I find attractive yet have no desire to date or actually care for seem to fall almost right away for me.

Girls I care about and would like a long term relationship with put me in the friend bubble right away.

I think my best bet is to disappear, get huge muscles, become a lifeguard, get douchey hair, and come back with a sweet tan and act like a huge dick....


Or ill just wait till another girl comes along and make sure I don't screw that up...

Why not just be happy with the shot you get?
I was personally rather concerned with my situation. Then I considered the following:

1. She'll never be that angry with you.
2. She'll be down for anything you like.
3. You can actually relate because the ego/superiority complex doesn't override your ability to relate.

We live (typically) to last over half a century; why get stingy over a few years of good times?
 
I've noticed a trend in my "love life" if you would call it that.

Girls I find attractive yet have no desire to date or actually care for seem to fall almost right away for me.

Girls I care about and would like a long term relationship with put me in the friend bubble right away.

There is a reason for this, its called "the universe is telling you that youre not ready for a relationship."

Thos girls that find you attractive, go hook up with them and get some experience. You'll soon see the bubble burst.
 
There is a reason for this, its called "the universe is telling you that youre not ready for a relationship."

Thos girls that find you attractive, go hook up with them and get some experience. You'll soon see the bubble burst.

A few test runs around the race track lets you know what to expect for when the car is more like a rocket on wheels then what you started with.
 
Lemme let you in on a secret...women are crazy. All of them. Even the good ones are nuts.

This is true, just some are nuts in ways that match our own personalities.
My girlfriend seems to have the same taste in women as I do. Shes actively pursuing all my old flames. Im not sure if shes trying to murder them, or bed them. Either way I see it as a win-win.
 
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I've noticed a trend in my "love life" if you would call it that.

Girls I find attractive yet have no desire to date or actually care for seem to fall almost right away for me.

Girls I care about and would like a long term relationship with put me in the friend bubble right away.

I think my best bet is to disappear, get huge muscles, become a lifeguard, get douchey hair, and come back with a sweet tan and act like a huge dick....


Or ill just wait till another girl comes along and make sure I don't screw that up...

Ha, I know the feeling.

I'm not sure I'd say this is the universe telling you you're not ready to date; rather, it's the universe telling you you're willing to wait for the right one. That's not a bad thing at all, but you might as well go around the block a couple times just to prep for whenever the right one does show up.
 
Ha, I know the feeling.

I'm not sure I'd say this is the universe telling you you're not ready to date; rather, it's the universe telling you you're willing to wait for the right one. That's not a bad thing at all, but you might as well go around the block a couple times just to prep for whenever the right one does show up.

My life lesson with most girls: every time you've thought about "going around the block a couple times", the majority have been with at least twice the amount of guys.

I've heard the assumptive retorts that guys have it equally or more so, but if that were true.....yet again, why do threads like this exist?

My money's on the " once they've learned how they like it, there's no changing tastes" theory.