I'm firmly in the camp wondering why these bands feel the need to basically completely ruin the way they sound, and the hearing of their audience.
And this is coming from someone who, for most of my life, has been primarily a metal fan, and have gone to tons of kick-ass high-voltage shows, and am an avid trap shooter.
This attitude of "it's worth going deaf later to enjoy my music now" is pure foolishness.
First, you can completely enjoy metal and other loud music without damaging yourself at all. Maybe it's because I came from a family of classical musicians, where hearing loss is a common issue, so ear safety was drilled into me from the beginning; but I have always been super careful (earplugs, where I am in the room, walking out at the drop of a hat on any band who's sound sucks), and according to my hearing check last month, at 40 I've still got better hearing than most 20 year olds, and I promise you, without sacrificing any enjoyment. I sucked up being the only "dork" at the concert putting in plugs, banged my head at I don't know how many shows, and can still enjoy listening to their CDs whenever I want.
Funny how it's usually no big loss to walk out. I've seen unintelligible bar bands that were at much more excruciating volumes and mixes than Slayer. If they wanna sound like noise, whatever, it shows how serious they are about their music, and I'll take my money and ears and leave, and save them for someone who takes themselves and music seriously.
And the second part of that foolishness, that somehow you won't mind being deaf later, is just so sad. Hell, if I hadn't been so careful, I wouldn't even be here posting. Life is long, and I'm really glad that I've still got good ears that allow me to start a new instrument at 40. I'm so glad I can spend a nice Sunday morning transcribing CDs and learning tricky (to me at least) little bass fills, and hear my new baby cooing downstairs and the birds chirping all at the same time.
I have friends who will never be able to have that fun ... I wouldn't trade for anything.
So why am I spending my Sunday posting? Maybe cause if it weren't for the people who don't walk out, and mock those who do care about their ears, there'd be more good music for the rest of us, and fewer people suffering. Before joining TB, I'd never seen anyone else really bring it up, it's nice to know I'm not alone. I always figured there had to be someone else buying those little foam plugs ...