Hey all, I have a question about social etiquette. I'm a very picky eater. But often times people expect you to eat while you are at their house. I usually politely decline, but sometimes people won't take "no" for an answer. Saying that I don't care for the particular dish they are having that evening usually just ellicits the response that, "I would like it the way they make it". Saying that I already have eaten earlier in the day, (which is usually true) usually has no effect. If you want to get socialological about it, I have an INTJ personality; so I really don't give a crap about customs for the sake of customs. What do you suggest I do in these situations?