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Suggestions for slow dance songs

Hey Joe
The Wind Cries Mary
Knockin' on Heaven's Door
“Knockin’ On Heaven’s Door”? Oh, no. Not only has G’n’R ruined that song forever, it’s just a slow, boring dirge, not a very happy tune. Slow songs/Ballads are more for the ladies in the audience, to feel romantic and slow dance. If you’re playing to an older audience, if you even have an audience at this point in time, the last thing they need to hear is that title, over and over again. Maybe “Tears In Heaven”, another ‘up’ tune, but if you just have to do a slow middle period Dylan song, try something like “Lay Lady Lay” or “Tonight I’ll Be Staying Here With You”. And “Hey Joe”, where a guy murders his woman in a fit of jealousy, and then brags about it? Right, that will put her in the mood.
 
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We do:
Gimme One Reason
Ooh, Baby Baby
Bring It On Home
I'll Take Care Of You
Blue Bayou
What's Up
Un-break My Heart
Almost all of these would be in the first set at a venue where many people are still eating and the serious dancing hasn't begun. When I started out almost 60 years ago, the last song of the night was always a slow song. That doesn't usually work for us now.
 
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