I haven't read the entire thread yet... But one word
CHIROPRACTER.
I had it so bad about 8 years ago that I couldn't bend either wrist back any amount without extreme pain. Went to a couple of Dr.s heard the same thing most everyone else hears and decided it couldnt hurt to give an alternative a try before suffering through meds or even surgeries. Went two-three times a week for a month and a half and then less frequent for several months after. To this day I have absolutely NO PAIN whatsoever. I haven't been back to the chiro in at least 4-5 years.
+1