I was born in '71. So my preteen and teen years were in the 80s.
People weren't as sensitive. We didn't all walk around on eggshells.
Technology grew in leaps, but seemed to be kept in perspective more back then. Video games were just one of your toys.... And most of your other toys involved the outdoors.
People..... ACTUAL humans..... not virtual humans..... would gather in the same home and share food and talk to each other. Birthdays were celebrated in person. Anniversaries were celebrated with gatherings.
Most cars were unimaginative and just plain awful.
Music was more fun. There's not much fun in music today. There are exceptions, but not many.
Race relations didn't seem nearly as tense. I feel like they were (of course) pretty bad up until the mid 70s or so. Then we "took a break" for the most part until maybe 10 or 12 years ago. I admit I can only speak to my surroundings and the media.
Not everything was awesome. But it seemed like a good balance of technology, social issues, fun, art, economy, etc. It seems everything is pure turmoil these days. But that's just perception. I thjink the media is convincing us that everything is being destroyed so that we turn to them for "answers". In reality, nothing is being destroyed. We aren't beating each other over the heads every day. Most if us don't hate anyone at all. Back the we understood that. These days everything is "us vs them". We have raised a couple if generations to believe that the planet is crumbling, every CEO lives to starve babies and kill old people while stealing from the masses, and every religion and race and gender hates every other religion race and gender. We mostly seemed to get along here in the states in the 80s. The only thing we "feared" (again mostly drummed up by the media) was nuclear war. There was never going to be a nuclear war any more than there will be today. Other than that, we seemed to mostly be okn the same team back then. Even for all of our problems we were all Americans. And we loved our country warts and all. We mainly focused on what was good about it, and what still needed work, rather than crazy talk of scrapping the whole thing for some other system.
Not everything was perfect. Not everything now is busted. But I rather enjoyed humans more back then. We weren't as stressed out for the most part. We weren't as sensitive. We talked more. We hugged and laughed more. We cracked jokes about each other more. We laughed at ourselves more.
As a teenager from '86-'90 I made from $200-$500 a weekend playing in a classic rock cover band that never traveled more than 60 miles. We had to turn down shows.
I don't want to go back. I love my life now. And if I took a different path I might not end up here again. But I wish we could borrow some late 70s and 80s and bring it here.
Slightly off topic. Do you guys remember 1976? The bicentennial? Man, EVERYTHING was red white and blue. And we were all so proud. I think that carried over into the early 80s as well.
If you look back at media reports you'll see a lot about homelessness. But it wasn't statistically any worse than any other period. It wasn't solved. But it wasn't any worse.
I guess I'm rambling. All I know is this.i could play outside throiughout my neighborhood until dark back then. We as a family picked up hitchhikers and have them food and money. My kids can't play outside without even in our nice neighborhood. And my kids bought some food for a homeless guy at the grocery store yesterday. We couldn't give him money because there's about a 70% chance he was a scammer. Then when we got out to give him the food I took security measures. He didn't say thanks and hid the food in the bushes so as to avoid fending off others.
Times are different. Not all bad. But not as good in my view.