I have to take issue with you on this one. There are many bassists, Jaco and Billy Sheehan quickly come to mind, That can play just as fast with fingers as any picker. I know I can. Carol Kay has a mental problem I believe.
I have been slow to respond because I was busy with other projects. I made an initially incomplete statement which you responded to. What was not said that was, in my opinion, speed was one thing but "feel" is another and the speed statement was made and the comparison to the feel aspect was left out. I am absolutely NOT claiming that pick players have NO feel but their feel is distinctly different. I also look at bass technique as related to the parent instrument and in this case I am talking about the upright bass.
Although the electric bass can be associated to the electric guitar and has been linked by players that play both, I see the greater link to the upright bass and it has always been that way in my approach to the instrument.
There is absolutely some gray areas. The upright can be played with the bow and with the fingers (being something in common with both instruments). However, the electric can not be used with the bow.
The bass can be played with a pick like the guitar but the guitar finger style rarely plays in the same manner that a bass finger style is usually played.
I am tending to lean toward the notion of "Can't we all just get along?" in my old age, LOL. I play exclusively with my fingers (even though I started with a felt pick as a kid). There are a lot of players that are in between my position regarding the use of picks and the other extreme of playing with a pick exclusively. Their range runs the gamut from excellent innovative players to those who must be completely insane for ever touching the instrument in the first place, top to bottom (BTW there is no relationship to your last remark).
Though I definitely have my differences with Kaye, she is a remarkable individual in her actual accomplishments (on guitar and bass) but I kind of see her as the Hillary Clinton of her issues with regards to her gender and losing the argument on other completely technical aspect of the real issues. With regards to Jamerson, her day is over but she is still trying to compete (sorry, please lets leave all other political stuff out of this. the gender analogy was too parallel to be ignored by me but not political at all, there is no place for that here).
BL