No one here who recommended against a CCB/BSO suggested that spending thousands was the only or even the preferred alternative for the OP. It's a false dichotomy. Folks here routinely recommend DBs that are far more affordable. There's also a long way between trying to be Ray Brown or Edgar Meyer and just having something to thump on with friends. Another false dichotomy.Well, there are occasions when spending thousands on an upright simply isn't an option. Maybe the Bill Murrays of the upright side could create a sticky regarding uprights that are affordable, if not preferable? Not everyone is trying to be Ray Brown or Edgar Meyer. Some folks are just looking for something to thump on with friends.
Still, if all one wants is something to thump on, is not concerned with developing much technique, does not care if the thumper can be comfortably played for extended periods, is okay with it needing constant tweaking or just plain falling apart, and is willing to consider it essentially disposable, then I highly recommend a CCB/BSO. No sense having a decent instrument in the hands of someone like that.
Most (virtually all) people who post here are not simply looking for that experience.