Fortunately I've only had this happen once at a jam session, with a bunch of much-younger players who lived in a different musical world than I did. They called a song I'd never heard of -- I didn't even know what genre it was -- so I asked if we could skip this one and move onto something that I knew. They said no and gave me a chord chart to follow, which would have been fine if I had even the slightest clue what the song was supposed to sound like. At their insistence I gave it a try and did just what I said in my previous post: I sat out most of the first verse, and then played a simple roots-only line throughout. I thought it sounded terrible but was relieved to have survived it. Then the next song they called was equally known to me. There was another (younger) bass player in the room who knew all this stuff, so I just let him take over the bass seat and left. I was clearly at the wrong jam session.So, how do you handle an improv jam session? (just a curious question)
(Almost) all of the other jam sessions I've been to have been blues-based, and either I knew the songs that were called or was given some quick instructions, e.g. "upbeat shuffle in A with a V-IV-I-V turnaround." That was plenty to send me off to the races.
I said "almost" above because I've also been to a couple of jam sessions that were "true" jam sessions, in the sense that everything was totally improvised -- no songs. That kind of jam is a totally different beast, as there is no "correct" bass line to replicate. Remind me to tell you a story....