I tried the Gibson again today, with time with Fender Flats. I had a tiny more time to try a few EQ options. The good news is I'm getting closer to a tone I like. I'm finding myself not being frustrated buy the tone when playing like before. I played everything with a pick, and that does bring some definition. I also tried the EQ of Nikki M. from her rig rundown. It looks odd, but does work pretty well with a pick. Don't think I cut the mids quite that much though.
Her settings
Her settings