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Trade a Gift?

I don't think you can get a much better B than a Spector B. I totally get the "big" body though. I prefer a J style body because of size. I don't think I would let a Rebop go for an ATK, they just aren't in the same league, IMO.
 
The more I think about it, the main issue I have been having with this bass is the amp I have been running it through. I have been using a smallish amp with one 15" lately. Going through a combo with a 2x10 and a tweeter, it came to life. Gosh, I feel like a newbie for thinking of trading my Rebop!
 
I went back to the store and a/b'ed the basses again. The another bassist listened along with me and we both agreed that the ATK had a much weaker B string. I do like the tones and fingerboard of the ATK, but this looks like another situation where if I bought, once the bass thrill wore off, I would be unhappy.

My Spector mainly has feel issues. I can worth on getting more used to it by leaving my big body basses alone and playing the Spector more.

Yay! Problem solved before my rant. :)

Ill just say now that if anyone ever traded a gift I gave em, I'd be happy for them if it made them happier to do that.
 
The more I think about it, the main issue I have been having with this bass is the amp I have been running it through. I have been using a smallish amp with one 15" lately. Going through a combo with a 2x10 and a tweeter, it came to life. Gosh, I feel like a newbie for thinking of trading my Rebop!

Nah, I ordered a custom Valenti with the specs I've been thinking about for years and sold it because of GAS. The bass took longer to complete than I thought and GAS totally took over. I got the bass, flipped it, bought the bass I was GASsing for to realize that I missed my Valenti. Luckily the new owner wasn't attached and sold it back to me!

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Nah, I ordered a custom Valenti with the specs I've been thinking about for years and sold it because of GAS. The bass took longer to complete than I thought and GAS totally took over. I got the bass, flipped it, bought the bass I was GASsing for to realize that I missed my Valenti. Luckily the new owner wasn't attached and sold it back to me!

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Hey, that's a nice Valenti! As for me, the amp is the issue. Going through a better
amp, the bass came life. Frankly, I like a modern tone, but my amp simply was not doing my Rebop justice. I will still have issues with body and fingerboard, but a whole lot of that comes down to reps and muscle memory. Furthermore, a better amp will be good for the rest of my basses too.
 
What a thoughtful thread. Nice to see that many felt it best to contact the friend first.

If I had given that gift to a friend and found out afterward that he had traded it, I would feel slightly hurt. If that friend called me first to talk about it - I would say go for it and be more than happy.

Strange how just talking to people is the best way to go - and yet many of us don't.
 
What a thoughtful thread. Nice to see that many felt it best to contact the friend first.

If I had given that gift to a friend and found out afterward that he had traded it, I would feel slightly hurt. If that friend called me first to talk about it - I would say go for it and be more than happy.

Strange how just talking to people is the best way to go - and yet many of us don't.

Frankly, I am glad that the ATK just doesn't measure up to my Spector. Although I am sure my friend would have been cool about me trading it, but friendship is worth more than things. I just would not want to insult a friend.
 
Years ago, when we were just dating, my wife bought me a Squier acoustic guitar which brought me back to music after a 20 year lay off. After a few years, snobbery set and and I wouldn't play it. I really wanted to upgrade but didn't want to offend. Eventually I replaced it with an Alvarez. I love that guitar and she hasn't mentioned the missing Squier.
 
Yeah, I *might* ask the friend who was generous to gift me like that if he minded - and if I felt even the tiniest bit of resistance, I would apologize for even asking, and would not do it... Odds are pretty good I would just keep the bass, instead of asking - but that's the ONLY way I would do such a thing... If someone thought enough of me to give me such a nice instrument, I would value that pretty highly...


- georgestrings

+1
i personally would be in bad taste to trade a gift.
there are some things you just don`t do.
 
+1
i personally would be in bad taste to trade a gift.
there are some things you just don`t do.

I don't agree that trading a bass is always bad, but in my case it would have been the wrong thing to do. It is one thing to trade or sell a beginner bass, but a Rebop is a bass with a $1,600 street price. Whether my friend gave it to me because he knew I would sound good on a Spector, or he let it go because it just didn't suit him, he still had the option to sell it or trade it himself. He did not have to think of me at all! This knowledge is why I wrestled so hard with trading it, and eventually posted to work this out with some fellow bassists' advice.
 
Hey, that's a nice Valenti! As for me, the amp is the issue. Going through a better
amp, the bass came life. Frankly, I like a modern tone, but my amp simply was not doing my Rebop justice. I will still have issues with body and fingerboard, but a whole lot of that comes down to reps and muscle memory. Furthermore, a better amp will be good for the rest of my basses too.

Thanks man! I'm really proud of her. :)

What amp are you gonna try and go with?