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Ughhhh chicks are difficult!

This comes up ALL the time, but its so true. They flirt with you all night, then they tell you they aren't interested in a relationship, when they more than likely are, because they still flirt the next day. It's so confusing.

Just don't know what to and and needed to let off a little steam. I know a lot of you have had similar problems.
 
They flirt with you all night, then they tell you they aren't interested in a relationship, when they more than likely are, because they still flirt the next day. It's so confusing.

Nah- Theyre just flirting with you the next day because they're good at messing with your mind.

I love the amount of girl rant threads on here. It brings me back to highschool:D


Back on topic- I agree- THey are confusing.
 
This comes up ALL the time, but its so true. They flirt with you all night, then they tell you they aren't interested in a relationship, when they more than likely are, because they still flirt the next day. It's so confusing.

Just don't know what to and and needed to let off a little steam. I know a lot of you have had similar problems.

If she's flirting with you and she doesn't want a relationship, how about suggesting some gold old fashioned no strings attached sex? What's wrong with that? :eyebrow:

But wear a jimmy.
 
If it gives you any consolation, I thought the thread title said "Ugly chicks are difficult".

I was about to say why do you even bother then, before I realized what the thread was actually about.

My advice now remains the same nonetheless, why do you even bother? Just don't look at it as if every girl you meet may be the one, and be somewhat laid back about it. Women are messed up and cold heartless people, keep your integrity and play it smart. Don't let them take advantage of yourself.
 
NOW you're catching on. There is NO information anyone can give you about women in general or one specific woman that will be useful - even the specific woman you're talking about!

They all have some weird sixth sense that lets them detect when a "woman secret" has been compromised and somehow that secret gets immediately changed - retroactively to the moment just before it was revealed/discovered. In other words, by the time you figure something out it's already too late and the info is now useless.

Give it up. Either accept that as the way things are and deal with it or fight to change it with the woman you're with. Neither is easy, but don't let yourself get sucked into playing that game. And if you find one who doesn't make you play it - DON'T LET HER GO. She's one of the rare ones and is definite keeper material!
 
You're young. Listen to the old guys around here. Don't worry about her. Girls play stupid games. Don't waste your time. Live your life and when the time is right, you'll meet someone who's as interested in you as you are in her. I say ignore her and if she's seriously interested, she'll find you.

I've always said that I wouldn't be married if it weren't for my wife - I know that sounds like an obvious statement, but what I mean is that I really enjoyed being single. I was busy living my own life when she came crashing in and I realized that I could not live without her.
 
You're young. Listen to the old guys around here. Don't worry about her. Girls play stupid games. Don't waste your time. Live your life and when the time is right, you'll meet someone who's as interested in you as you are in her. I say ignore her and if she's seriously interested, she'll find you.

I've always said that I wouldn't be married if it weren't for my wife - I know that sounds like an obvious statement, but what I mean is that I really enjoyed being single. I was busy living my own life when she came crashing in and I realized that I could not live without her.


+1

Also realize what girls like this become when they are older. Not a pretty sight.:rollno:


P.s. I wish we could have less threads like this.
 
Oh, I'm not being a puppy on a leash. I said what I want. And, I have nothing else to do with my time right now than waste it on a girl like this, and at least it will give me experience with this.

And I didn't expect this thread to help, and I'm not entirely sure why I made it.