There's no way I'd do a F&F transaction now with a stranger. I'd rather pay the fees myself than take the risk. Or use Amex.
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It's illegal un UK for them to pass payment fees on to you, so they CAN'T ask you to pay cover the fees for PayPal or CC. (Card surcharge ban means no more nasty surprises for shoppers).
The ban on credit and debit card surcharges is effective across the EU from Saturday 13th January 2018, and will apply to all purchases made where the banks of the consumer and retailer are within the EEA. In the vast majority of other circumstances surcharges are capped at the cost to the retailer for processing the payment. The UK Government took the decision to also include other payment methods such as PayPal in the ban to further protect consumers.
Just guessing but is this bass a new medium scale?![]()
In a lovely sparkle blue!?![]()
Mayvee
I haven't purchased anything from that dealer.
I've gotten basses from a different UK dealer and they had me use a money wiring service (Wise) that made me a touch uneasy the first time.
I was browsing a UK Bass merchant's website last night and discovered they had a new boutique bass in stock that happens to be rather difficult to get over here in the US because of no dealer here. I sent them an email about purchasing the bass because their website talks about needing a shipping quote if you're purchasing outside of the UK and that they can deduct 20% VAT off any new products being shipped outside the UK. In my email I asked them what the most convenient and economical way would be to purchase the bass but that I would prefer to use PayPal.
One of the gentlemen responded a few hours later that PayPal is fine but that I would have to send the payment friends and family, or I'd be responsible for the fees. I responded that I was planning on using my PayPal Cash Back card and that I was pretty sure I wouldn't be able to send the funds friends and family. On top of that, I told him that I didn't feel comfortable sending a friends and family payment when they are a business (not yet friends and certainly not family) and that I wouldn't have any recourse if there was any issue with this international purchase. He informed me that I had the option to send a wire transfer. Again, another form of payment where I wouldn't have any protection should there be an issue with the bass or it gets lost in transit from the UK to the US.
I certainly want to be fair, and I don't want to come off as entitled but I feel like if you're saying your business accepts PayPal as a payment option, then fees are simply a cost of doing business, just like credit card fees that they wouldn't be asking me to pay. You're a business, not friends and family. Asking me to send a payment friends and family or send a wire transfer so you're not hit with fees and I take all of the risk rubs me the wrong way. At the very least give me some incentive, perhaps a discount of some kind, to send a wire transfer or PayPal friends and family but so far that hasn't happened.
At the end of the day, they're entitled to do what they want with their business and I guess if I don't like their policy I can simply choose not to purchase the bass but I'm hoping we can find some middle ground where they get my money and I get the bass I'm after.
Do you think I'm being unreasonable? What would you do?
I was browsing a UK Bass merchant's website last night and discovered they had a new boutique bass in stock that happens to be rather difficult to get over here in the US because of no dealer here. I sent them an email about purchasing the bass because their website talks about needing a shipping quote if you're purchasing outside of the UK and that they can deduct 20% VAT off any new products being shipped outside the UK. In my email I asked them what the most convenient and economical way would be to purchase the bass but that I would prefer to use PayPal.
One of the gentlemen responded a few hours later that PayPal is fine but that I would have to send the payment friends and family, or I'd be responsible for the fees. I responded that I was planning on using my PayPal Cash Back card and that I was pretty sure I wouldn't be able to send the funds friends and family. On top of that, I told him that I didn't feel comfortable sending a friends and family payment when they are a business (not yet friends and certainly not family) and that I wouldn't have any recourse if there was any issue with this international purchase. He informed me that I had the option to send a wire transfer. Again, another form of payment where I wouldn't have any protection should there be an issue with the bass or it gets lost in transit from the UK to the US.
I certainly want to be fair, and I don't want to come off as entitled but I feel like if you're saying your business accepts PayPal as a payment option, then fees are simply a cost of doing business, just like credit card fees that they wouldn't be asking me to pay. You're a business, not friends and family. Asking me to send a payment friends and family or send a wire transfer so you're not hit with fees and I take all of the risk rubs me the wrong way. At the very least give me some incentive, perhaps a discount of some kind, to send a wire transfer or PayPal friends and family but so far that hasn't happened.
At the end of the day, they're entitled to do what they want with their business and I guess if I don't like their policy I can simply choose not to purchase the bass but I'm hoping we can find some middle ground where they get my money and I get the bass I'm after.
Do you think I'm being unreasonable? What would you do?