I hadn't picked up on the flared ports. That sounds like a dealbreaker for the amateur to try and play with in software. Blocking them off and starting again seems sensible. A little obvious trap to avoid, when feeding cabinet volume into the s/w, make sure you subtract port volume from the total.
FWIW my experience is that ports and damping material operate on different frequencies, one won't fix deficiencies with the other.
FWIW my experience is that ports and damping material operate on different frequencies, one won't fix deficiencies with the other.