I played trombone for a year, then french horn for 4 years in middle and high school. I loved the emotion of the french horn and it was right in the middle of the mix.
At some point in time, our youth church choir needed an electric guitar and electric bass for a trio of songs we were working on. My best friend at the time was already noodling around with acoustic guitar, so he got the guitar part and I wanted to play electric something, so I volunteered for the bass part. I wanted to play guitar, but all those chords and fingerings looked too complicated for my laid-back high-school brain at the time. Funny thing is, my friend on the guitar kept making fun of me for not following the drummer. I didn't know at the time that the bass and drum were supposed to be locked in.

I was trying to stay locked in with the piano, since she had 20 years playing experience, while the rest of us had... months.
I've been working on my skills on and off for 30 years. I'm just now getting barely proficient at knowing where the notes are and being able to read music. It's such a nice break from the technology world that normally fills my schedule.
I'm also learning blues guitar. I think the pattern here is single, expressive notes. I'm not much of a chord guy, but it took learning chords while I learned guitar to understand the harmony that bass provides. As Sting said, "The chord isn't finished until the bass player adds the right note." (Or something to that effect.)
Which, in a round-about way, describes my personality in general. I've never been the flashy out-front type. The one who demands all of the attention. (I'm talking about professional settings, but the same applies if I had ever joined a band.) Instead, I'm the one who adds in that extra bit of glue that keeps everyone heading in the right direction. I'm the behind the scenes type who asks the right question after everyone has been going on and on that redirects the tone to a new and positive direction. (Well, most of the time, anyway.)
I like being that glue that holds everyone together while shunning the immediate spotlight. I'm a bass player.
(Postscript: I forgot to mention that there were 4 really pretty girls that liked to sit on my bass cab. They never sat on the guitar amp!

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