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Crazy ex-girlfriend

Just alittle bit of background information: I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months and she goes back to spend the night with her ex the same day we broke up and claiming they were just talking as friends. Ex-girlfriend is now saying we need to get back together and trying to convince me to work things out with her.

Honestly she is starting to scare the crap out of me. Some of the things that she has offered are as follows:

1. Talking things out and getting a hotel room tomorrow night that she will pay for.

2. Saying she is going to buy me a new bass to make up for what she did.

3. Offering to have sex with me anytime I want it.

4. Offering to give me money weekly to go out with her.

Now I've dated some crazy women before but I've never had anyone offer me these types of things to try and work things out. I'm not asking for advice; I just wanted to ask what are some of the craziest things your exes have done or offered to do for things to work out?
 
Everyone gets one psycho. It's part of life. No point getting two, or even worse getting the same one twice.

Mine did a bunch of stuff, including: breaking in to my apartment at 2am on a Saturday night; chasing me down the road with a knife - fortunately a friend was driving by, saw it and opened the passenger door; throwing her gear in through the window to "move back in"
 
Just alittle bit of background information: I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months and she goes back to spend the night with her ex the same day we broke up and claiming they were just talking as friends. Ex-girlfriend is now saying we need to get back together and trying to convince me to work things out with her.

Honestly she is starting to scare the crap out of me. Some of the things that she has offered are as follows:

1. Talking things out and getting a hotel room tomorrow night that she will pay for.

2. Saying she is going to buy me a new bass to make up for what she did.

3. Offering to have sex with me anytime I want it.

4. Offering to give me money weekly to go out with her.

Now I've dated some crazy women before but I've never had anyone offer me these types of things to try and work things out. I'm not asking for advice; I just wanted to ask what are some of the craziest things your exes have done or offered to do for things to work out?

You could,
A - Tell her you never want to see her or talk to her again.

B-
1- Go to the motel room with her and let her talk about what she wants to talk about. Throw in some yes's and sure's. Then have wild sex all night.
2- Get up in the morning and have more sex then have her drive you to a music store and get a new bass.
3- go back and play your new bass with the strap real high so she can do her thing while you are checking out your new toy.
4- Get the money up front for the dates for at least a month.
5- Put her number in call reject and move on.
 
Ignore her. It will take a few weeks but she will go away. But, seriously, do NOT RESPOND to her in ANY WAY. Not an email, phone call, text.... NOTHING. That is the ONLY thing that makes a crazy EX go way.

I learned this the hard way..... the very hard way. You don't have time to read the story. Just trust me. (By the way, mine bought me a sail boat..... a big one. I'm not kidding.)
 
Run away ...

She's not the only way to have or one to get sex .

You can buy your own bass...

on a paranoid note, you go to the hotel room and its a trap ,,,you get the **** beat out of you or killed by her ex or new boyfriend you don't know about yet....
 
You could,
A - Tell her you never want to see her or talk to her again.

B-
1- Go to the motel room with her and let her talk about what she wants to talk about. Throw in some yes's and sure's. Then have wild sex all night.
2- Get up in the morning and have more sex then have her drive you to a music store and get a new bass.
3- go back and play your new bass with the strap real high so she can do her thing while you are checking out your new toy.
4- Get the money up front for the dates for at least a month.
5- Put her number in call reject and move on.
This sounds perfectly logical to me.
 
Some of the things that she has offered are as follows:

1. Talking things out and getting a hotel room tomorrow night that she will pay for.

2. Saying she is going to buy me a new bass to make up for what she did.

3. Offering to have sex with me anytime I want it.

4. Offering to give me money weekly to go out with her.

I'm not seeing a problem here. Is it the talking part? THAT I get.
 
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