generalizations,...you bet...accurate...nope.....while vancouver thrives due to things like proximity to pacific rim nations climate,it is dense in population comparative to the rest of the country......most of the country lives within a short drive from a border of around 3000 miles.....canada gets away without paying for the defense of that and all it's other borders ,courtesy of the american taxpayer,which allows for a lot of that social spending....but while some areas thrive others have been devastated by lost manufacturing sectors and fishing etc....I am from Vancouver Canada and I can add a couple things. Keep in mind these are generalizations from my point of view.
1. yes, our smaller population makes it easier to thrive... it assists us in having a better education system, healthcare system and ultimately better standard of living compared to most other countries in the world. If you look at the top countries in the world, the majority of them have a smaller population which helps tremendously.
2. The US pays lower taxes almost exclusively across the board than Canada. People hate taxes but hey if you want good stuff you gotta pay for it.
3. Comparatively speaking Vancouver hasnt really been hurt from the recession... at least from what I've seen. Some parts of the US are really hurting. Vancouver has not felt it nearly as bad.
4. The US education system needs a major overhaul. Your teachers are under paid (raise the taxes!) and your children are under-educated. I was talking with a friend's sister and she did not even know what a resume is and she is almost finished grade 12 and will soon be entering the work place. She said she was never taught that at school. Up here we have a mandatory course in high school called Planning 10 where students learn how to write a resume, cover letter, how to read a pay cheque, what deductions are, what a budget is, the basics of investment, exploring career options etc etc. She said high schools where she was from dont teach that. To me that stuff is essential.
YMMV / IMHO etc
your view on social programs seems to omit the reality of massive amounts of debt ......to sustain that level is no longer an option..while your daughter is learning budgeting in class i find it ironic that dad cannot seem to extrapolate the same reasoning to the big national picture......try looking at the actual numbers instead of the rosy view of the ocean.....