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nathan

Jul 16, 2004
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#1
Okay so I posted a long time ago on here about a relationship I had with a girl and it ended after the first year of college when we both went to our own towns. She broke up because she wanted to sleep around with other guys and I was pritty angry/depressed/shocked. I mean, why end an obviously good 10 month relationship because you can't control your desires for 2 months of summer?

We still talk every night. It's hard on me. She complains that she's not getting laid and that her prospective hook-ups don't like her. I have no sympathy for her.

A couple nights ago, she calls me and tells me she wants to get back together. She didn't want to do it right away, but within the next couple weeks. That's cool, I thought. She's realizing she made a mistake and she's trying to fix it.

THEN tonight she calls me and tells me that she "hooked up" with a lesbian girl at a club and is really thinking a lot that she actually might want a lesbian relationship.

This is insane. I love her and I want to get back with her, but I can't put up with her **** like this anymore.

What do I say to her? what do I do? I'm so confused by this situation!!!!
 
#2
Move on. It's not worth putting yourself through this. She obviously doesn't respect you enough to maintain a serious relationship. You'll wind up getting hurt even more in the long run if you don't end this now.

It sucks, and it's going to hurt like hell, but ending it now is the best thing you can do. Just move on and be done with her.
 
#5
Stay away!!! I've had my share of psyco women and she seems to fit the description. Does she wait until she's barely a blip in your memory and then suddenly call(I hate that).
If you really want her-
Demand to know where she is at all times,
Give her a good smack if she mouths off,
Ask her to go somewhere nice and then stand her up,
and whatever other mean thing you can think of!:hiding:
I'm not joking, you do this and you won't be able to pry her away with a crowbar. I have no clue why some women are like this.
 
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#13
I would like to say get out now, but post 7 sure sounds like some fun if you could handle it. Just don't let her mess with your head. If you can't deal with all the emo get out.
 
#17
Dan Molina said:
Been there. Don't be her doormat. Just break up with her, because she does not respect you at all. It'll suck for the first couple of months afterwards but you'll get over it.
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Disco_Gee said:
"Adiós, skank". You don't need her, and you can do a lot better than a chick who only wants you as a 'backup' when her other conquests don't work out. Ditch her. Fast.
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+1 on all accounts. And oh yes,

 
#18
nathan said:
THEN tonight she calls me and tells me that she "hooked up" with a lesbian girl at a club and is really thinking a lot that she actually might want a lesbian relationship.

This is insane. I love her and I want to get back with her, but I can't put up with her **** like this anymore.

What do I say to her? what do I do? I'm so confused by this situation!!!!
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