Tom (and I replied to jessicabass but apparently it did not post so I will try again) and Jessicabass,
Thank you both, and both of you are correct. How do I explain this. My "teacher" and I have been friends for so long we sound like Billy Crystal and Carol Kane in The Princess Bride. We have both played in bands since high school, but he is a musician and I have been nothing more (and nothing less) than a weekend warrior playing what I have always referred to as "******** rock-n-roll" (and I do not mean that as a derogatory term at all) while he has made his living as a professional musician playing everything from rock to jazz to classical to back (He has released a number of cd's - His name is Frank Carlier [so check him out either as a member of The Blue Wave or Solo - itunes, cdbaby]) and if I had a brother it would be him.
I have recently taken the bass back up with his "help" and so a challenge was flung, and inasmuch as wine, politics, Scotland vs. England, Obama vs. Tea Party, Chevy vs. Ford, etc. etc. was involved it was accepted by me. If I did not have a day job, a wife (who I actually love and adore spending time with), 4 children (who make me laugh 95% of the time), two cats and a dog, and if this was the typical student/teacher relationship, I would do EXACTLY as you both suggest. Unfortunately, or fortunately (depending on how one looks at it) this is not the typical student/teacher relationship.
So if anyone out there could help, I would really appreciate it.