I'm the quintessential weekend warrior. Cover band that plays 5-6 shows a month, typically 9pm to 130 am. Been doing it in this town for 6 years now. Here are some tips I've adopted:
1. SMALL rig. I have no interest in hauling a 4x10 around. I want the lightest, most portable stuff I can find. Thus, my rig is a 1x12 lightweight (Bergantino CN) and a Genz Benz shuttle. It's plenty of volume for stage monitoring.
2. As a result, I DI from the GB Shuttle to our PA system for the big boost. I don't need the stage rig to provide volume, it's just a stage monitor.
3. Why? Because I'm old now, and I'm tired, and my back hurts, and get off my lawn ya damn kids! So I want to minimize my load in and out time. As it is, three trips: 1) Both basses, backpack containing amp and all my cables, pedal tuner and wireless. 2) Cabinet and vocal monitor (10", lightweight powered monitor), 3) mic stand and guitar stand. It's 10 minutes to load up, 10 minutes to get it on stage, 15 minutes to set up, and 10 minutes at the end of the night so I can help my bandmates.
4. Help your bandmates as much as you can. They'll appreciate that you're willing to pitch in even if your part is done.
5. Drink too much. Don't listen to all those other people. I like playing in a band because it's FUN. I get to play and hear music I like. I meet a ton of fun people, I used to meet loads of women before I had a partner, and it's just like a fun night out at a bar with your friends, it's just that these friends are musicians too. It should be FUN!
6. Consequently, enjoy it. Dance around a lot. I got a wireless because I have fun interacting with the crowds. That's where all the best stories are.
7. Don't drink and drive. I realise that goes without saying.