Advice for poor bass player lol

[Karlson541]

Some people are offended that the sun rises. It is what it is. I said I didn’t not intend to insult anyone and I meant that. Perhaps you read into what people say the wrong way. You know negative people see things negatively.

Words happens to mean something, in some cases something very specific, and no matter what your honest intention was with them, people will see them for what they are.
I don't usually intentionally bump into people and make them fall on the ground with their groceries being flung out of their bags and spread all over, but the least I can do if I unintentionally should cause that is to apologize to them, give them a hand to get back on their feet and help pick up the groceries, that I despite all my best intentions caused to be flung all over the street.

 

[Nephilymbass]

Words mean something, in some cases something very specific, and no matter what your honest intention was with them, people will see them for what they are.
I don't usually bump into people and make them fall on the ground with their groceries being flung out of their bags and spread all over, but the least I can do if I unintentionally should cause that is to apologize to them, give them a hand to get back on their feet and help pick up the groceries, that I despite my intentions caused to be flung all over the street.

If the op tells me they were offended by my post I will gladly apologize for poorly wording what i posted because as I’ve said repeatedly that was NOT my intention. Personally I think you’re just looking to be offended though. And because of that I will not respond to any more of your posts.

 

[Karlson541]

If the op tells me they were offended by my post I will gladly apologize for poorly wording what i posted because as I’ve said repeatedly that was NOT my intention. Personally I think you’re just looking to be offended though. And because of that I will not respond to anymore of your posts.

A friendly advise: All your less than flattering assumptions about random people you don't happen to know will get you into trouble sooner or later weather you intend it to do so or not.

But yes, this has gone way off topic and threatens to derail the thread.
That wasn't my intention, but I still apologizes for partly having been cause for this to happen.
I suggest that if you have more to say about this matter, we'll continue in private with PMs.

 

[Eon Sky]

Here's my thoughts on the matter, as someone who has had to sell instruments to pay bills before. And I see that you made the decision to hold on to the guitar, which is awesome that you've come to a resolution and made a decision.

Every single time I've let an instrument go I've been bummed about it, but it was only the ones that I let go when I didn't necessarily have to that I've truly regretted it. The ones that saved my and my family's butts? Yeah it was unfortunate, but I had to do what I had to do.

So you hold on to the guitar for now. Maybe find out a cheap way to get it looked at to get a better gauge of its worth. Something comes up at a time later, you have a better idea of what you've got on your hands and if it's truly practical to let it go to help with finances.

Maybe that's the way the story of your time with the guitar concludes for you: "I found this hidden gem a long time ago, and it turned out to be a huge blessing to my family when we needed it." That doesn't sound like a bad way to end it at all.

 

[Jscriv]

Hi just wanted to ask you guys some advice.
I’ve been playing bass for over 20 years, I also play guitar. Due to bills and other things I’ve sold all of my bases slowly over the last few years. I am now down to a hohner precision bass copy which was actually my first bass.
the neck was always twisted really bad, But I’ve got it to where it’s pretty playable except for some fret buzz in areas. I'm pretty proud of myself for fixing this bass that had been almost unplayable for the last 20 years but it’s still not that dependable.
Now here is where I need advice. I own an original 1957 Gibson Les Paul Junior that I got for $70 from a pawn shop. The guy at the store was unaware that it was a Gibson. and so was I when I bought it, (long story involving plastic over the headstock to hide a bad repair) but it’s worth some money. I could sell this guitar and get a better bass and have money left over for bills but I’m afraid I’ll be sad in the future that I sold it ( like everything else I’ve sold) what Should I do? Thanks!!

If it's a Pbass copy I wonder if it fits fender necks?? I have a 70s RI that the rod.cracked the first fret at the nut. Very very playable I just like my action lower than I can get it. I have a set of MIM p bass pickups on a shelf. I will never use either of these. You would just have to put tuning pegs on the neck. PM if you want them. Ill never do anything with them. They might make that bass a lot better for ya for the time being. They're yours if you want them!

 

[Turbo Sparky]

2 Cents: First, do NOT sell your "first bass" ever. I almost did some years ago when I thought "not playing this thing anymore, I'm done." Glad I didn't, bought it on Lay-Away almost 28 years ago... Second, IMO sell the guitar. Take what you can, buy a more playable bass, take care of business, get a gig or start one, make music, get signed, rule the world, and then you can buy an immaculate vintage Les Paul. You will be more satisfied in the end. Dump the guitar. Good Luck!

 

[Kipp Harrington]

Hi just wanted to ask you guys some advice.
I’ve been playing bass for over 20 years, I also play guitar. Due to bills and other things I’ve sold all of my bases slowly over the last few years. I am now down to a hohner precision bass copy which was actually my first bass.
the neck was always twisted really bad, But I’ve got it to where it’s pretty playable except for some fret buzz in areas. I'm pretty proud of myself for fixing this bass that had been almost unplayable for the last 20 years but it’s still not that dependable.
Now here is where I need advice. I own an original 1957 Gibson Les Paul Junior that I got for $70 from a pawn shop. The guy at the store was unaware that it was a Gibson. and so was I when I bought it, (long story involving plastic over the headstock to hide a bad repair) but it’s worth some money. I could sell this guitar and get a better bass and have money left over for bills but I’m afraid I’ll be sad in the future that I sold it ( like everything else I’ve sold) what Should I do? Thanks!!

God bless you, man. Leave this in His hands. I’ll keep you in my prayers.

 

[Ronnie681]

I am in WV also and there are not enough bass players. I have had offers just to show up to play and bring nothing but myself because they supply it all. Where in WV are you if I can ask??

 

[RobTheRiot]

I haven't read the entire thread, but I totally agree with what @Eric DK said above.

Definitely dont sell your first bass. You can replace most things, but for me & many, that first bass holds a special, irreplaceable spot in your heart - where it all started, literally.

Maybe it's bass player bias, but I too suggest turn a profit on the Gibson, and get a bass you can play properly & enjoyably.

Or, if you're really not sure (I've done this before), list the Gibson for a fair price, close to market value - a price that will get you a bass you want and that you'll feel justified & comfortable parting with the guitar for, and see what happens. Don't entertain lowballers or bargain hunters - stand firm on the price you decide on. See what happens, easy as that - let the fates decide.

If someone really wants it and will pay what you've decided is fair, go shopping for a bass & pay some Bill's. If it doesn't sell, well, you were meant to keep it. Takes a lot of stress out of the process I find sometimes, to just list it & see what happens...

Either way, I wish you the best (and make sure to share pics of the new bass, whenever it arrives!).

 

[BOOG]

Hi just wanted to ask you guys some advice.
I’ve been playing bass for over 20 years, I also play guitar. Due to bills and other things I’ve sold all of my bases slowly over the last few years. I am now down to a hohner precision bass copy which was actually my first bass.
the neck was always twisted really bad, But I’ve got it to where it’s pretty playable except for some fret buzz in areas. I'm pretty proud of myself for fixing this bass that had been almost unplayable for the last 20 years but it’s still not that dependable.
Now here is where I need advice. I own an original 1957 Gibson Les Paul Junior that I got for $70 from a pawn shop. The guy at the store was unaware that it was a Gibson. and so was I when I bought it, (long story involving plastic over the headstock to hide a bad repair) but it’s worth some money. I could sell this guitar and get a better bass and have money left over for bills but I’m afraid I’ll be sad in the future that I sold it ( like everything else I’ve sold) what Should I do? Thanks!!

Brother, simple solution for you and me both, we need better jobs

 

[armyadarkness]

As a person who has often been in your shoes...

• Persistence and determination are key.
• Your life will be what you make it. If having better gear is what you desire, then put your mind to it and achieve it.
• IF your priorities are straight, you will NOT fail... and if they're not, then no amount of wishing will solve your dilemma.

If you need help beyond what you find here, then seek me out. There are many here who have faced lifes challenges and survived, and they have ideas and advice and are willing to share it with others.

 

[JRA]

"Stygian depths of utter blackness and despair"

works for me! but i almost always vote "black." stygian with tort could be a good look.

 

[arbiterusa]

Also. I hsd a Sterling Sub bass that I had gotten on a cheap AMS 8 payment plan but I sent it back because even 40 a month is too much for me right now.

I was in this position once. I hate giving advice but will in this case. If $40/month is too much for you to swing, you are in serious financial trouble. If you get sick or injured, and all of us do at some point, you're going to be homeless. You need to forget about music for a while and take a serious look at your life and figure out how to get out of this hole you're in. Selling guitars off one by one while continuing to do the same things with employment and life isn't going to cut it.

You're going to need a lot of luck - no one who is successful got that way simply by working hard, if that was true my gardener would own a mansion - but working hard helps. I get the vibe that you do. So now you need a plan, a goal, and a lot of luck. And I wish you all the luck in the world.

A final note, not for the OP: there's some damn cruel comments on this thread. You know who you are. You're not helping, you're kicking a guy when he's down.

 

[Flgc2017]

I’m going to hold onto the guitar for now. I’ve come to the conclusion that I’ll only sell it if it is going to fix something in a long run sense (new cheaper place to live, car etc) and I would have to have a plan, instead of just helping me temporarily relax financially.
By the way....nothing I have read on here offends me. I appreciate even tough love type advice.
I didn’t take post that “Nephilymbass” wrote as offensive at all. I understand what was being said. And I appreciated it. Thank you all you guys for any advice
Scott