Am I going to get dumped?

[Stanley Design]

You never know maybe you just had bad breath or she was on her rag or something.

 

[Wrong Robot]

Originally posted by Lonky Fangle
i do not know, or care, but for **** sakes don't ask me about it over AIM *accusing looks*

I will not care, and will give you bad advice because it makes me laugh.

sawry hat buddy, but that's hilarious.

 

[Osama_Spears]

Poor hate eater

 

[Wrong Robot]

Originally posted by Llama_ears
Poor hate eater

It's Hat eater not hate eater

 

[hateater]

I know for a fact she isn't on her "rag". Also, I asked her directly and she told me that she couldn't tell me.

 

[jrthebassguy]

Originally posted by hateater
I know for a fact she isn't on her "rag". Also, I asked her directly and she told me that she couldn't tell me.

She "couldn't" tell you? Dude, get rid of her. Now.

 

[Mike Money]

Get with her best friend.

 

[Claga]

Some chicks are just arrogant dude. If you manage to find one of the rare few that aren't consider yourself lucky...

....and give me her number

 

[pyrohr]

Did you guy's do the horizontal mambo? Could she be in a family way?

 

[bryan bailey]

Try smacking her across the head with a J bass, and if she survives, she may not.

Then again, this is something I might do, so...be warned...

 

[slick519]

Originally posted by hateater
Here is the story...

I met this girl around July. I really liked her ever since that time... adn about a month ago (oct 13) we started going out. I really care for her, and I ...thought she cared for me.

I haven't seen her in 2 days, and when I picked her up from school today, she seemed normal. When we got to my house however, she seemed really distant. If I were to touch her, she would recoil like i just burnt her or something. I asked her if she missed me these past 2 days and she told me no. She refuses my attempts to kiss her.

When i dropped her off at her house I said something like, "So I guess you don't like me anymore", and she said , "When did I ever say that?".

WHAT THE BLOODY HELL IS GOING ON?!?!?!?

hmmmm...... did you ever ask.... "What is wrong, honey?"

By what you said in your first post, most of the actions taken on your part were mostly selfish.... trying to kiss her, asking if she missed YOU, and then what you said at the end about ...."well i guess that you dont like me anymore"

a girl sees that as being totally insensitive, in my past experience (my own relationships, my sisters reactions)

i suggest that you call her up and ask her how she is doing, and if everything is ok. Assure her that you care about her, and that you will be there for her if indeed there is something wrong.

well.... that is my advice

Slicks

 

[h3llRa][seR]

Originally posted by slick519

hmmmm...... did you ever ask.... "What is wrong, honey?"

By what you said in your first post, most of the actions taken on your part were mostly selfish.... trying to kiss her, asking if she missed YOU, and then what you said at the end about ...."well i guess that you dont like me anymore"

a girl sees that as being totally insensitive, in my past experience (my own relationships, my sisters reactions)

i suggest that you call her up and ask her how she is doing, and if everything is ok. Assure her that you care about her, and that you will be there for her if indeed there is something wrong.

well.... that is my advice

Slicks

Good advice

 

[canopener]

Originally posted by Mike Money
Get with her best friend.

Or her sister.

 

[ModulusFan]

Best thing to do is positively, do not care. Ignore her rude and immature attempts for demanding unwelcomed attention. Show her you don't care, and flirt with her friends. She will change her tune quick.

 

[Slot]

pregga'z?

 

[Slot]

oh yea.... The ol' flirt with her friends routine is a beauty!

 

[*ToNeS*]

That kinda behaviour is consistent with guilt over infidelity (IME) - you're either about to get dumped, or she's gonna pop some traumatic ultimatum at you. Yikes.

 

[Thor]

You are already toast.

With her, and her friends.

If you suck up, your rep is gone.

BIG TIP:

Any girl that won't kiss you ...

GET THIS SIGNAL. !!!
------
Any move from now on is a wimpy, "I want to be used by you" move.

Move ON

There are a lot of girls out there you haven't been looking at that are nicer, because You Are
not LOOKING, just like playing the Bass, you weren't listening.

So wake TFU and start paying attention to the things happening around you.

*Ask and you shall find,
Seek and the doors shall be opened unto you.*

Be sure that you open those doors with love, kindness and understanding. Now that you know how.

The Secret for Men:

You got to ask !!

PS:

It's OK if they say no, keep asking, just ask somebody else, (not the same one, over and over).... move on.

PS: NEVER GIVE UP.
Never stop looking for love.


Thor

 

[Munjibunga]

Dump or be dumped.

 

[hateater]

OK, let me clear a few things up. I tried to kiss her on the lips. She turned her head so iI planted one on the cheek. We have done the "horizontal mambo". I can't call her because not only is her cell phone bill not paid, but her phone at her house got d/c. Basically I have to wait around for her to get her sister to let her use her cell phone (money issues within her house). She is not pregnant (I don't think). She also gets depressed a lot because she lives with jerks.

OK, that should do it.