Count me in. I started playing bass after burning myself out on piano (which I was forced to play from 5 years old through high school). I wanted to play something that was integral to every rock band.
I have a 34" 4-string and a 35" 5-string. I'm starting to look at short scales just because my hands go through a lot of abuse at school and it's starting to limit my practice time. I have no reach problem with my 35", jumbo fret though...just overuse issues. Some of my influences are: Levin, Claypool, Wetton, Entwistle, John-Paul Jones, Julie Slick, Bernard Edwards, Commerford, Eric Avery, and all of Zappa's bassists. Just discovered Colin Hodgkinson too...wow.
I haven't had any problems with the guys at the music store where I take lessons. They don't treat me any different than anyone else. Been asked by a man to play in his band recently and by one of the guys at school to jam. I've always been a tomboy and hung out with the guys anyhow, so I'm used to male-dominated atmospheres. I've played sports on boys teams in HS, played co-ed ice hockey, and was a volunteer firefighter. I'm used to good-natured ribbing and can dish it out pretty good too. You want to see me freak out...stick me in the middle of a sorority.