Caeman,
Either you are attacking a strawman or you simply do not understand the other side of the argument.
bc
I understand that some people adverse to specific risks. Personally, I view sky diving as too risky. But I am not going to state to unilaterally as some of the posters here, "Don't do it! You'll die! I once watched a jumper in front of me hit the ground. I'll never do it again!"
Okay, fine. My sympathies on having lost a friend or associate while they rode a motorcycle. Would they have wanted you to give up riding and use them as excuse for it?
If an activity is too risky for you, then don't do it. But to attempt to speak as with authority that no one should do it, is a bit much.
I have lost friends, family and associates to car accidents. Can I now proclaim for all the world to know, "Cars are dangerous! Give up driving! You have too much to live for!" And everyone should just follow that advice?
We all make choices with what to do in our lives. Every choice has risk. Even some of the most innocuous of daily activities can turn out badly.
A motorcycle rider that takes the proper precautions when riding minimize their risk. Wearing the proper gear is the first thing to consider. Some may see it as stupid, but being covered head to toe in proper equipment is a great first defense against damage should you and the pavement have a date. That anguishing 5-minutes to put on overpants, jacket and helmet are nothing compared to years of skin graft therapy. Those helmets? They work. Proper safety equipment for the task.
In our cars, we have seat belts and air bags to help prevent injury in an accident. They have proven successful. If only more riders would get over the attitude against gear, those ER rooms wouldn't have so many visitors.
If the rider is riding recklessly (speeding, weaving, stunting, etc) and without gear on, that is asking for an ER trip in the first place. Don't use those people as examples of how dangerous motorcycles are. I can use drunk drivers in a car in a similar way.
I know many riders that have been riding for a long time. I recently talked with a rider out of Indy, been riding for 53 years. Nice guy. Never been in an accident, always rode responsibly.