I'll be 50 in July. There's no way I would allow my email to ping me real time. It's a total time waster in my view. You must have nothing but time on your hands. If I whipped my phone out every single time I got an email (especially with two personal and one work account) I would never get ANYTHING done. Freaking Amazon,
Musicians Friend Sweetwater, TalkBass, several companies dealing with another hobby, church, etc. are all hitting me up every few minutes (literally).
The same goes for texts and calls. My father and my wife have custom ring tones. Everyone else gets checked when they get checked.
I'm a time management freak. It would make my head explode to even consider taking the time to whip out my phone every single time somebody tried to reach out to me vie email, text, or call.
I literally got approval from my boss to not answer my phone every time I get a call. (Turns out, he's a huge time management guy too. He gets it.) I return calls twice a day at work. I return personal communications (and my band falls into that category) whenever I get a sec. It's usually within an hour or so. But, occasionally it isn't.
Sometimes when I do get into a group text with my band, we get all goofy. It can go on for a while. My keys player and I both participate until we have other stuff to do. Then we simply tap out and turn our ringers off. At first the rest were a little put off. But, after we explained that we simply don't have that kind of time for goof chatting, they got over it.