I've never used the Neutrik barrel jack, but have been using the same Switchcraft one in one of my basses since 1988 without any issues. I believe what kills them is using non-standard off shore plugs that are shaped slightly different, causing the tip and ring contacts to be bent out of shape.
Use only Neutrik or Switchcraft plugs, and they should last for years.
Use only Neutrik or Switchcraft plugs, and they should last for years.