Love-Nothing...its pointless
Hate-How people think they're hardcore, just because they flail their arms around, thats not tought...thats just being a ******** octopus. Also, how people are complete dicks about it, they kick you around and call you a pussy if you say it hurt...just headbang to the beat, much more fun and less dangerous.
Havn't been in many have you? Im not a big dude, I remember going down once hard and gett stomped by some dude (Think it was a accident) Two huge guys picked me up, tossed me onto the crowd and i was surfed out the front where I could have rececived medical attention if i was hurt...
One time for mastodon i didn't want to mosh just get close to the front. I met some giant muscle bound dude who was watching for surfers so his girlfriend didn't get squashed. I threw a pound, he excepeted. Rest of the mastodon set he kept people from falling on my head, i made sure no one came near his girlfriend... The bonds we create in a pit are the point, plus exerting some energy, getting out a little agression (But in a positive way)I find theirs two kind of pits, pits with old school moshers (Murphys, molly, bad Rel, Lamb of God, etc) and the hard core fighting kids (Kataklysm etc( Is that music? or just 1 blast beat skipping constantly...) Couldn't think of any others... But i know my sister's generation is filled with D-Bags... The shows blow, no moving around, just kids swinging at invisible enemies.