I use fuzz and OD and a slew of other effects as well. I have been frustrated just the same as you, for the same reason.
I have tried using the miced bass cab, it lead to more frustration than the DI route. For some reason, the sound guy can never leave the mix alone and is always twiddling with the knobs, resulting in ... FEEDBACK. I have since returned to the DI and like you am looking for options.
I have tried using the miced bass cab, it lead to more frustration than the DI route. For some reason, the sound guy can never leave the mix alone and is always twiddling with the knobs, resulting in ... FEEDBACK. I have since returned to the DI and like you am looking for options.