When I was 14, our "power trio" band went to record at a studio in Memphis. It was my first time recording, and I was very nervous. I had not taken any lessons, and had only been playing about a year. After setting everything up and recording a couple of songs, the engineer took us outside and said to me, "Do you know what it means to be tight with the drummer?" Obviously I had NO idea. He went on, "It means, basically, that what the drummer plays, you play. You've got to listen to drummers and play with them to be tight." Fortunately, we were very much into Rush, and I applied what he said, listening to Peart and Lee follow each other and it has stayed with me ever since, so much so that our drummer (a music major and music teacher) says that I can talk shop about drums, drummers and technique with any drummer anywhere.
LISTEN TO AND LOCK IN WITH THE DRUMMER.