This whole thing sounds off to me. I'm glad it's not my band because I don't like it at all.
If it's personal, it would be between the drummer and the BL. The information wouldn't be from a third party. As it is, it's heresay.The BL said it was personal reasons. BL said that she had learned of some disturbing information from a reliable source.
What does "very eliable" mean? A cop? A priest? Someone who says they saw something? Maybe someone who says the drummer did something to them. Or just someone the BL has known longer than the drummer? None of these necessarily make the source reliable, or the accusation true.Yes I too questioned the BL if the source is reliable. BL said yes, very reliable.
You can't fire someone on a suspicion. You need evidence. Actual evidence, not just the word of someone who may (or may not) be "very reliable".BL said there were some suspicious signs at a few of our rehearsals. Again I did not notice anything and do not know about the specific issue.
This sucks. Say your drummer is guilty of some heinous crime. First, that would be awful and, depending on what it is, sacking him may be the best thing to do. But BL should definately not be saying anything to you, particularly before it's dealt with. She should sack the drummer first, then call you all together and say she's sacked the drummer. And even then, she shouldn't tell you why, unless it's going to be on the front page tomorrow.The BL called me and other members to explain what was going to happen and not to seek my approval or permission.