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Tell the second place you are already booked that night, but really want to play his place - what else does he have open.
You booked a gig...... you do the gig. Don't trash your reputation. The "better" gig will hopefully realise that you are in demand and want you even more in the future.
It's not what you think is right, it's what the person being cancelled out will think - and do about it! At best, he'll totally understand. Mid range is he won't book you ever again, and worst case is he tells the world how you let him down and cost him money on Facebook!
We got a request to play live on national radio, for no fee. One of the band was moaning until he suddenly said "how many million people listening?"
Well, it all depends on a few factors.
1) How much does the first place pay and hw much does the second? If we're talking a couple hundred bucks difference it's not worth bringing up.
2) What is your relationship with the first guy? Has he been loyal to you for a long time?
3) Do you guys play for a living or are you weekend warriors?
You see, everyone's knee will jerk into "Don't be a douche" mode without knowing all the facts. I have long-standing relationships with lots of club owners. I can think or several I know I could call and reschedule with. And I could even tell them why. They get it and would be totally fine with it. And they'll hug my neck next time I pull up to load out. They use all kinds of bands and it would be nothing for them to call some hometown guys down the street and plug them in the spot. Heck, I have even called other bands before hand and then called the club owner and said.....
"Hey, Mike. We would love to go play a swanky place in Myrtle Beach on th 27th. The Hoss Kats can do your place that night. Is that OK with you?"
(On that occasion Mike said sure as long as I bring him a Margaritaville T-shirt.... which I happily did.)
So there aren't any absolutes here. Most guys here take bar gigs WAAAAAAAAAY too seriously. We're playing rock n roll and selling beer. We're not saving the world.
If you know the guy well, call him and ask. Just be honest. And if he holds you to the date show up with a smile and play a great show.
+ 1 and this since you are perceived as more in demand, that is an opportunity to raise your rate.You booked a gig...... you do the gig. Don't trash your reputation. The "better" gig will hopefully realise that you are in demand and want you even more in the future.
Hi there, just curious if its common to try to get a different night at an already booked venue if a better paying venue comes along on the same night??? I feal kinda douchy calling to reschedule with the first guy... just want to run it by him though and will totally stick to my word if the conversation starts going south.... any thoughts? Oh, it's regarding Aug 22nd so it's not like it's short notice... or maybe that is ?? I don't know....
If you tell a booking guy why you want to skip out on a date, you essentially are telling him what he's worth. "Hey, bud, I got another gig that day that's four minutes closer" tells him he isn't worth the four minutes, which would tick just about anyone off. If you say, "Hey, sorry. I just got booked for 20,000 people at the biggest arena this side of the state" then he at least gets a subconscious message that that's the field you're placing him on. I think psychologically there's a big difference, though business-wise they're the same: bailing out.
I still have an opinion even though the OP is politely saying he is done with this topic. I WILL BE HEARD!!!!!!!!!!
I still have an opinion even though the OP is politely saying he is done with this topic. I WILL BE HEARD!!!!!!!!!!