So i read (i think on this site) standard notation is a must for bass players.
I've gotten severely beaten up on another site for saying that although I think it's a damned good idea for everyone to know how to read standard notation, one can learn theory without knowing standard notation. They really are two different animals to me.
Bass is a cool instrument to learn theory on because it's very uniform: All strings are the same interval (a fourth) apart (unlike guitar) and there aren't any black versus white keys (unlike piano). With bass, violin, etc. it's much easier to take intervals and chords into the abstract - place your finger anywhere on the neck and the intervals to another note are the same. With guitar, up a string and up two frets from a note on the G string is different from any other sting. I suppose that keyboardists mentally "flatten out" the keyboard, but sharps and flats do require a small adjustment. The uniformity of the bass can really help.
Notation falls into the "keyboard" category for me. It's the written language of western music, but it doesn't really help me grasp the underlying theory very well.
Again, I want to emphasize that I'm discouraging anyone from reading music. It opens a lot of doors that will otherwise be closed to you. I should cut/paste that statement in between every sentence above just in case some idiot decides that I'm attacking reading like anonymous pompous *ss did on alt.guitar.bass. I'm not.
KO