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Coming to terms with gear vs reality

Considering my situation what would you replace?

  • Sell the Mesa 210's, get a single smaller cab for home practice only (compromise a little)

    Votes: 21 14.0%
  • Sell the Mesa 210's + Mesa WD800; bank the money (headphone practice direct to audio interface)

    Votes: 24 16.0%
  • Keep the rig, you never know when opportunity could come knocking (kills any future GAS)

    Votes: 66 44.0%
  • Sell or keep depends on how you think you can manage paying off $$$ (Carrots)

    Votes: 21 14.0%
  • Either get your old Ampeg combo back or pickup a Fender rumble 40

    Votes: 18 12.0%

  • Total voters
    150
Pro gear is a business decision, unless you have the financial ability to take your hobby to that level. I've played off and on through out my child rearing years, enough to always pay for the gear, but I did wind up using my old peavy head and an Ampeg cabinet through out. So, get the small Ampeg amp back from your buddy, and raise your kid. If the music bug bites and you and they can mix it up great, otherwise go camping or do what ever. It is important to have hobbies, but the family and finances have to work.
 
Here is what I did, after being a full time musician ( only income)
I quit the road and settled down, full time job started a family. I held on to nearly all of my stuff, but not everything. I played as a studio musician for a while taking on people's projects here and there and I gave lessons.
After my kids were older (9 years since I quit playing live), I decided to join a cover band. I now have way too much gear to justify having it, but most came as gifts from my loving family. I have been doing the weekend warrior thing for 17 years this year. It has helped me in many ways, it keeps my mind sharp, keeps me in shape and gets me away from the realities of life for a few hours a night. Selling your gear is one you need to make on your own this was how I chose to handle it. Good Luck RTS
 
I've been through this as well, if I were to tell my 5-10 year younger self something it would be something like this. "The gear is paid for and not costing you anything. Unless you are about to lose your house, lights going out, wait it out". Give it time, if you sell it for 60% what you bought it for and 3-4 years later have to buy it *again new* at 125% (normal price increases) what you originally paid for it you are coming out far behind. Market also fluctuates too, think of a Deep Impact and they went from $100 to $1,000 back to $300 or so, Eden Wt400 was $900 now at $350. Look at it this way, if you held onto your original gigging rig think of how much you would have saved in buying/selling/coming full circle.
 
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@MicG , First, you are doing great and have your priorities in the right place. Our zombie economy notwithstanding, your best bet is to hold fast.

Presuming your bass gear is paid off (didn’t see that one way or the other in your post), the only reason to sell is if you are forced to liquidate by banks. Then, there just isn’t any choice. Otherwise, your best move is to do nothing and keep putting one foot in front of the other.

From your description, you will undoubtedly play bass again somewhere down the road. Again, presuming your rig is paid off, just keep it. Flipping gear is rarely a good financial decision; so, don’t go down that road unless no other options.

Your best protection for your family is aggressive re-education. Fields like Project Management continue to have high demand, while requiring reasonable additional educational certification. Look for something like that. Anything that can be applied to the Medical field is reasonably reliable.

Leadership in the USA fails to understand the dynamics that create healthy economic platforms. The lessons are in the history books; but, Washington remains oblivious. Which is odd, because most Poly Sci programs claim to include history as a field of study.

I was fortunate enough to have a family while we still had a healthy economic platform; that being the semiconductor / high tech industry, which had been initially underwritten by the race to the moon. Moon rocks never did anything for us; but, the country reaped rewards in multiples for the investment indirectly in the manufacturing base that was created. That same pattern actually plays out several times since the Civil War for any who care to study it. Anyhow, the timeframe for such large scale economic platform creation is 10+ years from funding injection to free market success. No way to shortcut that, since it is based on infrastructure. The problem is that Washington won’t engage in that kind of timeframe, because the initiators never realize the benefit. Sigh. Also, every single previous example was driven by war; when we had our backs to the wall.

What all that means is that things are unlikely to change soon. Your best defense is a good offense, which means education in fields that need warm bodies.

Best of luck. Stick to your guns.
 
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I've been through this as well, if I were to tell my 5-10 year younger self something it would be something like this. "The gear is paid for and not costing you anything. Unless you are about to lose your house, lights going out, wait it out". Give it time, if you sell it for 60% what you bought it for and 3-4 years later have to buy it at 125% (normal price increases) what you originally paid for it you are coming out far behind. Market also fluctuates too, think of a Deep Impact and they went from $100 to $1,000 back to $300 or so, Eden Wt400 was $900 now at $350. Look at it this way, if you held onto your original gigging rig think of how much you would have saved in buying/selling/coming full circle.


Lol, just... no.

If the gear costs $1000 new and the used value is currently $600, it would be highly abnormal for the used value for the same gear to be $1250 in 3-4 years.
 
My $.02:

I try to own gear appropriate to the gigs I have, not the gigs I wish I had or think I might have some day. Many of us (and I've done this myself) have a gig or two with a new band, get excited, and buy a bunch of big gear for the shows that we're sure are just around the corner ... and then they never happen.

As the baby-boom generation ages and stops playing out I suspect that used music gear is going to lose value over the next 10 years, so I don't want anything gathering dust in my house that I'm not using.
100% this. As much as I’d like to own a Rig like the OP’s and a wall of basses, my 12” mark combo and P bass does everything I need (and then some.) Then I can save or spend my extra cash on my family.

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I'm not sure that a %25 price increase in 3-4 years is particularly normal for new gear either.

My point is simply it won't be less, name your %, they don't go down is my point and the gap between what you paid and pay a second time only further suggests to stay put. I have seen smaller increases, I have also seen greater increases. Meanwhile gig pay hasn't moved much in 30+ years. If you enjoy it, keep it. You won't come out ahead on the selling, rebuying game is all.
 
My point is simply it won't be less, name your %, they don't go down is my point and the gap between what you paid and pay a second time only further suggests to stay put. I have seen smaller increases, I have also seen greater increases. Meanwhile gig pay hasn't moved much in 30+ years. If you enjoy it, keep it. You won't come out ahead on the selling, rebuying game is all.

Prices for gear very often goes down after it has been replaced by newer and better models. Look at the Powerhouse cab value after the Subway line came out. And the last sentence is only true given harsh time constraints. You can always list high and take a long time to sell, then wait patiently for a good used deal to pop up. I've made a decent amount of money over the years buying gear then selling it for a profit, and aside from a custom bass and maybe one or two obscure items could've replaced what I sold for the same or less than what I sold it for.
 
Good day all;

This is as much a journal entry to remind myself of where I have been and where I am going. It took several hours to reflect on and write. If you care to read through it all know that I appreciate it. TLDR is at the bottom. The events that follow happen to correspond roughly with my time since joining this site although I do not directly blame this site for anything. It's fun to joke about GAS, but seriously...
I'm sure this story could apply to the 'Basses' section as well. Perhaps a cautionary tale of just how successful company marketing departments can be? Know that I accept responsibility for my actions.

I guess I'm looking to get something off my chest. In November my wife and I welcomed our first child into the world. He was 5 weeks early but she and him are both doing OK now. We're in our mid 30's and have full time jobs, etc. There were complications in the pregnancy which (to make a long story short) means this was an expen$ive experience for us. This whole situation has caused me to do some soul searching when it comes to gear.

Rewind 10 years ago and I was getting ready to graduate from college and was gigging with some buddy's in a cover band about once a week. In terms of amps I had a Mesa MPulse 600 running thru a Mesa PH410. It was gloriously powerful and, to be honest, probably way overkill for any gig I ever did. I was responsible with it and didn't pi$$ off any neighbors or sound guys. The gear was bulletproof and the experience of being out gigging was something I'll never forget. Perhaps this is what leads to the next section.

Just as we started to get a small following and a steady flow of gigs my guitar player (an old friend from High School) got a promotion at work and I graduated as an elementary teacher soon to find work of my own. Nether of us could commit to the band any longer and the group dissolved. Being a new teacher with very little free time I decided to sell off my rig and pick up a small Behringer Thunderbird amp for practice. Over time I would still get together with my guitar buddy and former band mate at his apartment for an impromptu jam. Soon I traded in the Behringer for a USA Ampeg 1x12 combo (which he still has at his place to this day). Eventually we both get busier with work and he ends up moving into an 11th floor high rise down-town. No more jamming. Eventually I get better work-life balance and start GASing for an actual practice amp with good tone (I had been DI'ing straight into a Focusrite interface for headphone practice). So I go to GC and find one of the last Mesa Walkabouts on Clearance and end up buying it at a great price. That amp was inspiring! Enough so, in fact, that I started looking for another group to play out with. There's a wedding and the purchase of a house sometime in this period of time but I never end up joining another band.

Putting the cart ahead of the horse I end up selling that Walkabout for my 'dream Rig'; the one to end all GAS: an SVT-CL Heritage head and brand new Heritage 810 from Sweetwater because, hey - I have a house/garage now and figure I'll be finding another band playing out again soon -right?

Wrong. I change careers from teaching to data analysis. Budget cuts at work lead to lateral movement within the company to avoid unemployment. I end up working Help Desk as a contractor (under-employed?). Need to manage my income better. I stop my search for a band to join and realize - "HEY! This stuff is heavy! I can't manage this much gear without additional help" -meaning that if I started looking for a band again I would absolutely need help moving gear in order to play out. Suddenly my confidence wains in my ability to ask/trust complete strangers for muscle with this kind of gear. In my mind: the gear became a hurdle to rejoining a band! Plus, Am I even good enough to deserve this level of equipment? Thanks to TB I end up selling the whole rig (read: rent an F150, ask friends/wife for help moving it, transport and deliver to shipping office or buyer, take a bath). I tell myself + wife never again will I be in that type of position with gear.

Still wanting to join a group and play out, I take to researching lighter weight, gig-worthy gear. I remember my experience with Mesa and find Mesa's WD800 along with 2 Mesa Traditional PH 2x10 cabs for a modular 410 rig. Sweetwater sells me these two cabs for a deal just as Mesa completely switches over to the Subway series of cabs. Great! I can split the rig up between a potential band/practice spot and home and combine it together when playing out as necessary. I can lift this gear with relative ease on my own! Now, let's see about a band..

Suddenly, we're pregnant! Same job as mentioned above. Same house. Same friend "let's jam again soon!", still no band. Things come to pass as mentioned in the beginning which is where I currently find myself and, to be clear: family comes first.

It's been 10 years now since I've played out or even, for that matter, really jammed with anyone. I have a 3 month old baby boy. Medical debt sucks. I have relatively light 2x210 killer Mesa Rig w/ Mesa WD800. I don't know guys, I just don't see playing out as an attainable goal anymore? Not even thinking about those threads where people are talking about "is it worth it to gig" and so on. I mean, for my personal situation, man, it has literally been a hotdog dangling on a stick. Maybe someday again in the next 10 years once my son is a little older? But, that line of thinking sounds vaguely familiar...

So, this is my reality. I appreciate and respect the gear I have/had but I don't think I can justify this much firepower for just home practice anymore -especially with a wife, kid, and bills. The WD800 has great tone and a headphone jack and can DI to record with but so can many other options for several hundy cheaper and with cash back in my pocket - I'm having a hard time justifying it to myself. As for the cabs - forget it I guess and let them go? Way too much. Again, cash is king. Could just sock them in a corner and say the same "some day" thing over and over again or use them with the WD800 and barely touch the volume. Seems a waste of power and money though to do that - I don't even care about having that much overhead Gain, especially at home.

I recently saw someone comment on a thread that really made me reflect on things. It read something like this: " It is amazing what you can afford when you stop being a professional."
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TLDR; kids/life can be a lot of work. I am an average dude who happens to have professional/studio grade gig-ready equipment right now but haven't played out in 10 years and don't see being able to again for minimum another 2-3 if ever?. I'm lucky to practice/play in my home office once a week; probably too much cash tied up in gear. If I record it is for home practice/self betterment only. Leaning towards selling off likely never to rebuy this much unless a situation actually presents itself where this type of gear would be justified. Famous last words?

Anyone ever been through this? Am I nuts to part with this gear? I would like to keep playing. See poll for options I am considering and if you made it this far, thank you for reading.
one of your last few words says it all..you said you would like to keep playing.........we all reflect back to try and justify our lives..looking for the meaning of life..but rarely finding any answers...so many forks in the road would have taken us down different paths..but each of us are who we are with our own likes and dislikes..abilities and shortcomings..................the amount of money you have in your gear is not going to make you or break you ..so you should just keep it..you just have to adjust your mental attitude as to the things you accept and reject in life............life is short..have fun with it..
 
Prices for gear very often goes down after it has been replaced by newer and better models. Look at the Powerhouse cab value after the Subway line came out. And the last sentence is only true given harsh time constraints. You can always list high and take a long time to sell, then wait patiently for a good used deal to pop up. I've made a decent amount of money over the years buying gear then selling it for a profit, and aside from a custom bass and maybe one or two obscure items could've replaced what I sold for the same or less than what I sold it for.

Congrats!
 
By selling the rig, it may help you out a little this month, but what happens the next month, and the next after that? I don't know what your level of skill as a musician is, but if you can get involved in a band playing regular paying gigs, you'll be further ahead; consider it a part time job.

In my eyes, my bass rig is nothing more than a tool to get the job done; not a collectible, and not an investment.
It's certainly expendable if I no longer need it, or it's no longer worth repairing to keep it working. If you don't have any aspirations to continue playing, you may as well sell it and wash your hands of the whole thing.
 
As someone who has a really hard time selling off gear, my advice would be to sell it now. When you get back to having time to play out (and I know from recent experience how that is with the new baby), there will probably be some great new bass rigs that will have made everyone forget all about the gear that we're all going crazy over right now.
It costs money to keep up with the latest and greatest, and the latest isn't always found to be the greatest after it's been tested for awhile. Then you find yourself spending more money to obtain something better. If what you have works, better to just keep using it, from an economics standpoint.
 
Similar situation (12 days NICU) minus the debt (socialized healthcare).

My kid is about to turn 7. Although I still feel guilty about doing things that don’t involve my family my wife actively encourages it. In my case, she says I’m more tolerable to be around when I have outside friends and activities to get me out of the house.

If selling your gear = food on the table than absolutely sacrifice it. If not, it’s a pretty short term solution to a long term problem. It might help you out this month, but what are you going to do next month? If paying for groceries this week isn’t an issue then my focus would be on figuring out how I’m going to get by month to month for the next period of weeks/months/years.

Alternatively, if selling your gear is part of a larger effort to liquidate assets to pay down debt in a larger lump sum to make things more manageable, then go for it. Done right, that potentially turns your long term problem into a short term huccup.

As for getting out and playing, the internet is your friend. I’m not sure what the US has, but Canada has a site called BandMix where I have an artist profile and can browse “looking for” ads organized by genre and geographic location. Although I’m currently in a band and not actively advertising I still periodically get requests from people who’ve browsed my profile. I’ve also had success using hooking up via forum and friends have used Kijiji (a local variation on Craigslist).

As a bass player it’s never taken me more than a week or so to find a new gig.
 
Good morning MicG,

this will be a lengthy one, too; there's a TL;DR below.

Good day all;

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It's been 10 years now since I've played out or even, for that matter, really jammed with anyone. I have a 3 month old baby boy. Medical debt sucks. I have relatively light 2x210 killer Mesa Rig w/ Mesa WD800. I don't know guys, I just don't see playing out as an attainable goal anymore? Not even thinking about those threads where people are talking about "is it worth it to gig" and so on. I mean, for my personal situation, man, it has literally been a hotdog dangling on a stick. Maybe someday again in the next 10 years once my son is a little older? But, that line of thinking sounds vaguely familiar...

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Anyone ever been through this? Am I nuts to part with this gear? I would like to keep playing. See poll for options I am considering and if you made it this far, thank you for reading.

Yesterday night, I cast my vote for your Keeping the rig. Then I slept over it. I re-read your post in its entirety, the two passages I quoted struck a particular chord with me. I changed my vote to selling your rig and getting a (headphone) practice amp. I'm coming at this from a different angle than most posters here did, as I don't have kids and paid off my debts a long time ago. But naturally what they said applies – family comes first, always.

No, what resonated with me was the time span between gigs, in conjunction with the gear you own. Because that's where I had been as well, in the early 2000s. I gigged pretty steadily until, say, 1998, 1999. Then due to circumstances our band dissolved, and rather than immediately looking for another gig Life Stuff came in between. By 2006, after five years or so with no playing out, I sold my rather expensive Trace Elliot rig (SMX preamp, power amp, 115 cabs). I kept one bass and a combo.

… and was full of remorse by 2019, when out of the blue our old band got back together and is now gearing up for a full come-back. My band mates got most of that child-rearing stuff behind them by now; add a spell of midlife-crisis (everybody wanting to re-live their late teens and early twenties), and there you go. I kicked myself in the metaphorical butt for having sold off my Trace gear back in the day. It was paid off in full, I had the space to stash it, it didn't make much money when I sold it, and NOW I would be glad to have it back. By now I got a nice Orange rig instead, but still. That's why, yesterday night, I opted for "Keep the rig" in your poll.

But well, after sleeping it over, I also realised:

- In the approx. 20 years since "last gig with the Trace" and now, my back got a LOT worse. I wouldn't dream about lifting one of those 115 today, don't even get me started on that huge power amp I used back then.

- Technological advances might slow down but doesn't stop; e.g. my complete current Orange rig weighs less than one of those 115 did.

- It's also a lot less expensive than my old rig was. Taking inflation into account, the preamp alone cost me about as much as my current head and one of the two cabinets combined.

- If you're thinking in decades rather than years, there's strong trends and flavours in both technology and usage. Back in the 90s, on our level and in our region it would have been unthinkable NOT to use a big bass amp. In-ears etc. was for pros only. Then came the Class-D boom. And nowadays, going direct from a pedal preamp with no amp onstage is becoming more and more common even around here in rural Switzerland. Heck, I've even seen amateur rock bands using in-ears last year, amps onstage were just for show, they told me later.

TL;DR:

So I changed my vote. You can't know what the next 10, 15, 20 years will bring, either for your health, or your family, or your gigging, or bass technology and venue requirements. It's just stuff, you can always get more / other stuff if required. And chances are, you will be able to get better stuff, cheaper, once you're through with debt payments and child raising.

Just don't make the same mistake I did back in the day--I did keep a combo after selling my rig, yes, but after a while and due to circumstances I stopped playing bass entirely for nearly a decade. I'm still playing catch-up and trying to get back to where I was in the late 90s.

All the best,
-Sascha
 
Two things come to mind. 1, If you don't know what to to, do nothing. and 2, You have good sense and priorities. You CAN live with unsolved problems.

There has been so much support and well wishes in this thread it is overwhelming; I really appreciate everyone's good-wishes/feedback. I have been keeping tabs on the thread and I think I'm going to take some time to step back and really assess my next steps rather than jump to the market with all my gear right away. While the money from the gear would feel nice to have back in my pocket it is not necessarily the case that we are up against a wall just yet. I'm certainly not dying to unload the gear -especially the Mesa. Perhaps trying to be proactive and practical, maybe too much? I have some parts from unfinished projects to sell but am down to one (fully assembled) PJ bass that I am planning to keep.

@agedhorse - Thank you for the well wishes! My regards to you and the Mesa team, you guys build some awesome gear. TBH your presence on this site has had an influence on my decision to give Mesa my business from a customer service standpoint.

Didn't expect this thread to take off. I will continue to drop in w/ updates from time to time. Again, thank you!